We love you Larell Blamo

Welcome to Share! I'm so sorry to hear of the death of your son. I know the pain of losing a child as do many others here. Please know that we're here any time you need to talk. The pain gets easier to deal with but doesn't go away. Your child is in your heart forever therefore it won't go away....

Tracy

I am so sorry for the loss of your precious baby boy Larell. Losing a child is a pain that no parent should ever have to endure. My heart goes out to you knowing that heart ache all too well.
Please know that the days ahead will get better. It has been 28 months since the loss of our 1st daughter and 20 months since the loss of our 2nd daughter. I still have my difficult days and there is not a day that goes by I do not think of our children.
Grieving is a long and difficult journey, but one that you never have to travel alone. SHARE is a wonderful community, full of caring, supportive members that are here for you.
That pain eases through time, but it will never completely go away sweetie. I have leaned to embrace each day and continue my journey one step at a time.
Thinking of you and keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.
HUGS,
Colleen

I am so very sorry for the loss of your little one. I lost my daughter at 23 weeks in Aug and same as you, I went into premature labour and there was nothing that could be done. I know the place, the loneliness, the sadness, and the anger. Theres days (yesterday being one ie. Mothers Day) that it feels like yesterday that we lost her and the emotions, the tears, seem to wear so heavy on my chest.

Losing a child changes you; your never without that little one (you carry them with you; they become a part of who you are) but as time goes on everyday life becomes alittle more bearable.

For us its helped that we talk about her to friends and family; shes now become a part of many everyday conversations (our close support has become totally accustom to talking and asking questions about her)....a way to keep her alive. Everyone has there ways of dealing with this; you'll find what works with you. We have chosen to be completely open in the ways we remember her and are not concerned if others are uncomfortable; we have a need to surround ourselves with things that represent her. I also read "pregnancy after loss" and this book was a wonderful place to go to where you can relate to women and know your journey is normal. And of course this cite is filled with so much love and support.

Feel free to contact me if you ever need to talk....
I can't say it will ever go away but it gets easier...
Sending my love
Devon