Twin Boys now Single boy

I know your pain I had identical twins in feb they were 9 weeks early and 2 days after they were born Brandon died of heart failure. It has been 4 months and I have days were I feel so lost His surviving twin is doing great and Im glad I atleast have him and his big brother but still miss brandon so much

Welcome to Share. I am so sorry for the loss of your little boy Jaden. I am certain that he is looking down cheering Kaden on. I cannot fathom the raw pain of loosing a child, while also still needing to be supportive of another. Please know that there are many parents on Share that have had to unfortunately experience this pain and you will not be alone in this journey. Please keep us updated on how Kaden is doing.

Love, Kelly

I also just gave birth to twins, one survived at 25 weeks gestation. Aaden (1 lb 7 oz, 12" long) was born into heaven. He had a knot in his umbilical cord after fighting so hard to come back from a severe case of Twin to Twin Transfusion Syndrome. He was two weeks behind his brother Evan (1 lb 9 oz, 13.25" long), and ended up being only 2 ounces smaller!!! That is amazing! Evan is currently in the NICU, improving every day! Just yesterday he got his picc line taken out, they dropped his high flow to 4 and he is now eating 20 mls and weighs almost 2 1/2 lbs!!!! It's hard to cheer Evan on when I hurt so bad. But I have to be strong! I look at it like Aaden gave up his life to save Evan! I don't know how else to cope. I've started going to classes at the Hospital to learn what I can do with Evan, and I get a chance to talk about Aaden there. It helps.
Please if you ever need to talk, I am here! We share the same pain! And we are all here for each other!

How is Kaden doing?

Hello. I had twins on 8/25/09 a boy Kenyun 1lb 4 oz and a girl Kenya 1lb 8 oz. I had to have an emergency c-section because Kenyun was not doing well in my tummy. Today Kenyun went to heaven and Kenya is still in the NICU weighting over 3lbs. We are still praying for her. I believe GOD had a purpose for Kenyun and when her purpose was done GOD took him home. I don't know if Kenyuns's short time on earth was for the purpose of someone else or for me and my husband. I know that all I can do is continue to Thank GOD for allowing me to have his son for 31 days, I Thank GOD for seeing him smile and squeeze my finger. Even thou I am hurting I am still giving GOD the glory. I know he will give me understanding and bring me through this. If I don't believe that then I do not have any Faith. I will not allow the devil to still my joy. I love my daughter very much and I can't wait for her to come home. I know that my son is in GOD's hands know looking down at us. I hope you believe that all things all possible with GOD in your life. I'll pray for you and your lose.

WElcome to SHARE. I am glad that your daughter is doing so well but sad for the loss of your son to heaven. Please know that we are here for you if you need someone to "talk" to.

Take care and please keep us posted.
Ellen

Kenya was taken off the ventilator on Oct. 9th, we was able to hold her for the 1st time and hear her cry. We were so excited, that was a wonderful feeling to be able to hold her.

Congratulations on such a huge milestone. Isn't the feeling of holding them so exhilarating?

Good luck.
Ellen