Born at 28 weeks...please read, i need opinions

gretchensm0m - 05:07pm Feb 27, 2009 EST

my second child, a boy, was born on february 11th 2009 at 28 weeks. the story is, i had placenta previa since december and eventually was put on strict bed rest, but it did not stop the bleeding. i was admitted into the hospital the first time for 2 days, one week later i was back for bleeding and stayed a week. four days after that i was admitted for the final time (for bleeding) and stayed for a month. at about 12am on february 11th my water broke at the hospital and i thought "here we go, this is it" but to my surprise my doctor said, lets wait it out, lots of women can have their water break and still go weeks. i wasnt very comfortable with it but i figured that they were the doctors and know what they are talking about. so i go back to sleep to wake up the next morning with a high fever, they said that it is a sign of infection and would have to take the baby that day... but werent really in a hurry. by the time i had gotten my c-section my contractions were less than a minute apart and it was 5:55pm. at first we thought everything would be ok, but at only his 2nd day of life we were informed that my baby boy had e.coli, septicemia, and meningitis. i was devistated, i couldnt understand where all this would come from. he had his ups and downs (mostly downs) and in the end he had become brain dead and we had to let him go. he made it a week. but not only did he have these illnesses, i do too, everything except the meningitis, but i also had an abcess under my c-section and some blood clots in my abdomen that are infected. i am still super sick. this is the hardest thing i have ever had to go through and i cant help but think that this all could have prevented had they had just taken him when my water broke. any thoughts?

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