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why me

kaykay1 - 12:34am Mar 19, 2009 EST

I just lost my little girl Malashia La'nette Atchsion almost 3weeks ago. she only had 2weeks left before she was born but her cord was wraped around her neck and foot and the doctor said she probly got excited about something and cut off her breathing. Its hurting me so much cause im only 16 an she was my first little girl I ever had and loved as much as I did I whish she was here with me now so I can tell her how much i love her and how much she mean to me.



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Grace's Mom - Mar 19, 2009 4:56 am (#1 Total: 5)  

^i^D'Lon Grace^i^ ~ Forever 3 ~ Missing you every second of every day! (I HATE PH!)  

I am so sorry for your loss. I commented your post in the short stories section. This a very hard journey to walk, but many of us are walking it here so you are not alone.

Please feel free to come her and talk, vent, share. Someone will always be here to listen and offer support.

Be kind to yourself,
Yolonda

Angel Love - Mar 19, 2009 3:12 pm (#2 Total: 5)  

Looking forward to seeing you at Shareunion October 1-3 in Atlanta, GA!!  

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss! I know the heartache of losing a little girl too. Please know that we're here to listen any time you want to talk and know that someone else just "knows" how it feels.

Tracy

Akeelah's Mommy - Mar 21, 2009 4:43 pm (#3 Total: 5)  

A moment in our arms, a lifetime in our hearts.  

I'm so sorry for your loss at such a young age as well. My heart breaks for you. Please know you are not alone.

Hugs,
Lauren

krissy4 - May 10, 2009 10:17 pm (#4 Total: 5)  

 

I am so sorry for your loss. really feel for you having to go through such a traumatic and heartbreaking tragedy at such a tender age. Most of us at share have asked that question ourself "why me" and there really is no answer, but please know that the people on share are very compassionate, supportive and are always here to listen and help in any way that they can, my only regret is not finding share sooner it so would have helped me.
Know that you are not alone
Take care now
Chris

Katelyn'smom - May 12, 2009 1:22 pm (#5 Total: 5)  

 

Welcome to Share. I am so sorry for the loss of your precious girl, Malashia. I am also so sorry that you had to find this support group for this reason. I, as I am sure that many others on this site, can totally relate to having that 'why me' question lingering in the back of their minds as well. I wish I could help and I wish the pain would subside a little for you. Please take care of yourself and pop in every now and again and let us know how you are doing.

Love, Kelly



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