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Cerebral Palsy

shawna24 - 11:19am May 6, 2009 EST

I have a 23 month old baby boy who we found out in March that he has cerebral palsy. This has destroyed me in every way possible and i am finding it harder every day. I dont know what to do or where to go. He is not walking or even talking. The doctors do not know if he will ever talk since he does not say mama or dada. He is the happiest baby, he is always laughing and smiling and just a joy to be around.



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shawna24 - Jul 2, 2009 9:22 am (#17 Total: 22)  

 

Replying to: ( Desiree ) (Jul 2, 2009 3:17 am)
Re: Pregnant: Well congrats!!! How wonderful! Well I had another child two years after Nia's horrible birth so I know...

Re: Pregnant

Thank you, I have been speaking loud this time, the doctor does want to do numerous tests this time. I am nervous about what others will think because i dont want them thinking christopher is on hold now or anything. How do i deal with others?

My Miracle baby natalie - Jul 3, 2009 3:30 pm (#18 Total: 22)  

 

dont worry it will be ok

sorry to hear about your baby u have to be strong not only for u but for your two babies the unborn and your 23 month old they need you to be well mentally ,emotionally and physically.
     I have a 10 month old with a grade 3 bleed and a VP shunt i have a fear of finding out that my daughter might have C.P sometimes i catch myself on websites reading about the symptoms of C.P and my husband gets upset with me, i guess its a natural thing for a mom to have many different worries when having a baby with medical conditions.. don't worry you came this far you will do well good luck and don't stress yourself you have a baby inside

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  • ( Desiree ) (Jul 5, 2009 3:22 pm)


  • ( Desiree ) - Jul 5, 2009 3:10 pm (#19 Total: 22)  

    Devin 36wks, Nia 29wks, and Cade 36wks  

    Shawna~
    What others think is going to be the least of your worries in pregnancy. I am sure many people had things to say when I got pregnant with my little guy. I never pushed Nia aside because I had another child. To this day each of my three kids is equally demanding in their own ways and somehow I juggle it. You will too. I wish you the best.

    ( Desiree ) - Jul 5, 2009 3:22 pm (#20 Total: 22)  

    Devin 36wks, Nia 29wks, and Cade 36wks  

    Replying to: My Miracle baby natalie (Jul 3, 2009 3:30 pm)
    dont worry it will be ok: sorry to hear about your baby u have to be strong not only for...

    Re: dont worry it will be ok

    Jennifer~
    I did the same thing when Nia was little. I actually brought up the conversation first with the therapist about CP. Nia did eventually get a CP diagnosis just before her second birthday. It was a hard pill to swallow because it meant she would never grow to be a typical child. She is five now and doing great. We are lucky her CP is mild. She does almost everything that other kids do and with age she is closing the gap more and more. I can't tell you not to worry because you will anyways. Just know that no matter what happens you will handle it. There is plenty of support out there both financially and emotionally. Best Wishes.

    shawna24 - Jul 6, 2009 10:24 am (#21 Total: 22)  

     

    Thank you

    Thank you all for the support. You have no idea how much it means to have other people who know what I am going through and that are there no mat ter what. So again thank you!

    My Miracle baby natalie - Jul 6, 2009 8:11 pm (#22 Total: 22)  

     

    natalies mommy

    Desiree...

    its wonderful to hear that Nia is doing so well after having a ruff start shes a trooper , i am so happy for you both thanks for replying to me i know its not easy... its just so hard to have to wait around for you babys diagnosis the anticipation is over whelming good luck!!



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