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How long did you wait to conceive after a Miscarriage due to preterm labor?

reneed - 07:46am Jun 11, 2009 EST

I lost a baby girl at 22 weeks almost six weeks ago. I miss her dearly but I long to be pregnant again and have a child. My doctor said I had an incompetent cervix and was told to wait for two periods before trying to conceive. I just got my first period and I am already so anxious about trying.

How long did everyone else wait and what did your doctors tell you?



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reneed - Jun 11, 2009 6:07 pm (#3 Total: 5)  

 

I am so sorry for your losses as well. I did talk with my gyno and I will get the cerclage as well as progesterone shots. So I am thankful that I do have a plan in place for next time. I will continue to try and be patient and put it in the Lord's hands. Thank you both!!

kristina - preemie mom & former ICU RN - Jun 15, 2009 5:40 pm (#4 Total: 5)  

26 weeker with bilateral grade 4 IVH  

Battle worn in the trenches.

I now have two beautiful children. I wasn't always sure that could happen. We had trouble with infertility. I have two gene mutations and the anticardiolipin antibody, all three of which makes me prone to clotting, strokes, heart attacks, all things bad that can happen in preg. like intrauterine stroke, preterm labor and fetal death. We had 5 misscarriages, then after being hospitalized 3 times for preterm labor, my son was born at 38 wks by emergeny c-sec due to fetal distress. We waited a yr, then we had 5 more misscarriages before my daughter was born at 26 wks. I am persistent if nothing else.
I would follow the doctors advise about waiting. I know it is hard, but you need to let the uterus heal so it can be a good home for your next baby.
I am so sorry for your loss. Don't give up. I am so very glad I didn't.

Jakesmommie - Jul 17, 2009 11:38 am (#5 Total: 5)  

 

I am sorry for the loss of your little girl. I too lost my son Jacob on May 5, 2008. He was born at 28 weeks (PROM) and passed away four weeks later from a twisted intestine that was not caught by the doctors. My doctor said we could try again after 2 cycles, I became pregnant 2 months later. I was seen by my regular OB and a high risk doctor. I had a normal pregnancy with alot of worrying but I went full term and delivered a beautiful baby girl on March 27, 2009. Getting pregnant so quickly after our loss was the best thing for us. It doesn't make the pain go away but has helped. Good luck you are in my prayers.



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