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bradyam09 - 11:54pm Oct 20, 2009 EST

Hi everyone-
I am not too sure if I will get any responses but it's worth a try. My name is Kimora and this past August, I had lost my son Brady due to Anencephaly. I am new to this and it's hard to tell your story to others, but as I have read some of your stories, I know I am not alone. I will be honest, it's hard and just not fair. I should be 6 months pregnant with my son. I see all these other mommies who have baby boys and it's heartbreaking. I have a 2 year old daughter who will be 3 next month. She is my rock and without her, I just don't know how I'd get up each day. It is so hard when she first started asking questions about the baby in my tummy. I think my husband and I finally got her to understand that Brady is in Heaven in the sky with the stars.

I can go on and talk more but it is getting late and I do need to try to sleep. It's not been easy at all since then. Let me know if you'd like to talk. Like I had said before, I like to talk to other parents who have lost their precious angel as well.

I miss Brady and he will always hold a place in our hearts.

Kimora

may1985 - Oct 21, 2009 3:54 am (#1 Total: 11)

Hi Kimora,
I'm so sorry for your loss but we all are on the same boat here. About 2 months ago i lost my baby girl i've always had complications and i started bleeding since the beginning of my pregnancy in the end my water broke and i dilevered my baby ( who she was dead in my belly) a few weeks later. She was everything to me cos i had already lost my job and was out from a very painful surgery so i guess it wasn't meant to be for me. Now i try to be stronger and after my second period which is a few days we are allowed to start trying again. So what i'm trying to say s that i still can't believe that she's gone cos i feel alone and empty cos i was supposed to be 7 months pregnant and buying her stuff and clothes. But in the end, it was meant to be and now we know that we have a little angel waiting for us. Take your time being sad but just remember that life goes on and whoever gave this little gift is able to give u another.
Thanks.
May.

^Trinity's^ Mommy - Oct 21, 2009 3:58 am (#2 Total: 11)

Mommy to Jadon 34 weeker and Trinity our angel!

WElcome

Welcome to SHARE Im soo sorry for your loss! Every child has a story and this is yours and every story is worth a responce! Hang in there I know how hard this is! I lost my daughter 3 years ago this past August when she was born 15 weeks early! Hang in there and know that we are always here for you!

Lots of Love
~Samantha

KHolley - Oct 21, 2009 6:32 am (#3 Total: 11)

Welcome to Share. I am so sorry for your loss, it is a pain that no parent should ever have to feel. I hope that you are able to find some comfort and healing here.

Katie

Grace's Mom - Oct 21, 2009 6:37 am (#4 Total: 11)

^i^D'Lon Grace^i^ ~ Forever 3 ~ Missing you every second of every day! (I HATE PH!)

Hello Kimora and welcome to Share. I am so sorry for the loss of Brady. Nothing in life prepares you for the loss of your child or the aftermath that follows. I am friends with a woman who also lost her son to the same thing earlier this year. If you would like to chat with her, please feel free to send me an email at yctoney@netscape.net and I will be certain to put you n contact with her.

I hope that you find the same support and comfort that I feel here.

Take good care,
yolonda

TrishloveTristan - Oct 21, 2009 1:09 pm (#5 Total: 11)

Kimora,
I'm so sorry for the loss of your son Brady. Many of us on SHARE know the pain of losing a child and nothing prepares you for such pain. Please know that you are not alone. SHARE has been a great place for me to find comfort and understanding from wonderful parents.
Hugs
Trish

Angel Love - Oct 22, 2009 2:06 pm (#6 Total: 11)

Looking forward to seeing you at Shareunion October 1-3 in Atlanta, GA!!

Welcome to Share Kimora! I'm so sorry to hear of the death of your son. I too have lost a child and know the heartache that it brings. I also know the strength that another child can bring to the situation at the same time. I hope that you will find that many of us understand completely and are here to listen.

Tracy

chantelle (baby ashleys mummy) - Oct 25, 2009 7:20 pm (#7 Total: 11)

Im so sorry for the loss of your son,my heart is aching along with yours..i also lost my son,ashley at 32 weeks in january...9 months on the pain is still unbearable...you are not alone...hugs..chantellex

Brocksmom06 - Oct 27, 2009 5:47 pm (#8 Total: 11)

Welcome to Share! I'm so sorry that your loss brings you here, but please know that you're not alone. We are all here to listen when you want to talk.

Wishing you all the best,
Sarah

bradyam09 - Oct 28, 2009 10:31 pm (#9 Total: 11)

Thank u

Thank you everyone for your support. It means so much to know I am not alone out there. It's been hard but honestly, I am starting to get involved with MOD and it has been helping me heal so much. It is so wonderful to be able to communicate with other mothers who may have been through the same exact thing or even just the fact that we all have angels or someone we know who have angles waiting for us to join them one day.

Kimora

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Presleysmommy - Nov 23, 2009 12:19 am (#10 Total: 11)

I lost my baby girl to anencephaly at 20 weeks this past August, I'm going through it with you, and my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. Our little angels are watching over us and giving us strength each day. I'm here if you ever need to talk
-Denicia

bradyam09 - Dec 30, 2009 10:55 am (#11 Total: 11)

Brady Allen McCarthy Memorial Fund

f anyone would like to donate any money for Brady's fund.... please send money to Community Foundation of Randolph County, Inc. (Brady Allen McCarthy Memorial Fund) 213 S. Main St. Winchester, IN 47394. Phone is 765-584-9077. This fund is for families who can't afford tombstones for their child or infant. All donations are welcome!

Thank you so much for every donation. We are ever so grateful.

Love,
The McCarthy Family

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