Dont know if i can handle another loss.
Lizzy - 12:50am Nov 6, 2009 ESTMaybe some of you have read my journal on here? If not heres an update. When i was 17 i had my first child, a daughter. Skylar was born in 2000. No complacations at all. We tried for years to get pregnant again. 6 actually. Then i found out i had cysts on my ovaries and had my right ovary removed. That must have cleard the way because my surgery was in January 2006 and i was pregnant 8 months later! I was due June 2007 and we were so happy. New years day out of the blue my water broke. By January 8th 2007 i was in labor. My son Caden was born at 16 weeks. He weighed only 7 ounces. He was so tiny but perfect. My doctor said it was a fluke. They didnt know why it happened. We were heartbroken! (Still are.) When we were ready we started trying again. I found out June 25th 2009 that was newly pregnant. Was given an early March due date. July 12th i woke up bleeding. I went to the er. My Hcg levels were down to 44.. i misscarried.
I can not even begin to say how devistated i was.. am. Im 27. My first child is well on her way to turning 10. Should i even try again? Could i handle another loss? I really want more children. 1 or 2 more.. But should i put my family through that? I really need some advic or just guidence. Please..
reneed
- Nov 17, 2009 8:51 am
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I can understand your pain. I lost my precious little girl at 22 weeks May 2, 2009. I got pregnant again in June and miscarried in July at five and a half weeks. I got pregnant again this month and was just told I will be miscarrying again. I am sad and frustrated because there was nothing wrong with my first pregnancy and it was my incompetent cervix that caused me to go into labor. Although I am sad and scared I know my husband and I will try again. I have known people who have gone through a few miscarriages before having a healthy baby. Overall though you and your husband need to decide and be ready for whatever may come. Wishing you the best!
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Pain and then Joy (Jan 7, 2010 9:20 pm)
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Pain and then Joy
- Jan 7, 2010 9:20 pm
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reneed (Nov 17, 2009 8:51 am)
I can understand your pain. I lost my precious little girl at 22 weeks May 2, 2009. I got...
Re: Dont know if i can handle another loss.
Oh my! Are you ok? Are you still pregnant? As I say in all of my blogs I definitely know your pain. I had a baby girl at 23 weeks. She survived for 5 months and then passed away from a blood transfusion. i got preganant a month later and I just lost my son on Tuesday Jan 5th. I was 19 weeks and my body failed with a cerclage and an emergency cerclage.
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