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It will be three weeks tomorrow.

Mandymnm - 07:11pm Nov 19, 2009 EST

I lost my baby girl 3 weeks ago tomorrow. The pain is still so sharp. This is the single hardest thing I have ever been through. I miss her so much! I was due to be induced at 34 weeks and with that date being next week it hurts so badly. Her brother is doing so well! I feel that she is watching over him because he is just moving right along! It is the weirdest feeling to be so proud and happy and sad and lost at the same time. I would love to talk to anyone that has had these feelings. I am so glad I found this site. I am so happy to be leaving hopefully soon but feel like I will miss the NICU because she never left here, but at the same time it is so hard to come here some days. Thank you all for your support.



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Akeelah's Mommy - Nov 19, 2009 11:56 pm (#1 Total: 7)  

A moment in our arms, a lifetime in our hearts.  

I will be keeping you in my thoughts tomorrow. I know this time and these days are so difficult.

Much love to you,
Lauren

may1985 - Nov 20, 2009 1:49 am (#2 Total: 7)  

 

I'm so sorry for ur loss i wish u will find a way to feel a little better sonn. I know the pain will never go away but with time u will trun this bad memory into a good one. I wish u the best of luck.
May.

Jackie G - Nov 20, 2009 5:37 am (#3 Total: 7)  

Mom to Kimberly (25 wkr, now 6 yrs!) & Matthew (38.5 wkr, almost 4 yrs!)  

I am sorry you have to go through this. It's not fair. Please know that we are here anytime you need to talk!

Hugs,
Jackie

Angel Love - Nov 21, 2009 2:51 pm (#4 Total: 7)  

 

Welcome to Share!! I'm so sorry to hear of your daughter's passing. I too lost one of my twins while I sat by the other's bedside praying that she would make it. It's so tough! Please know that we're here to listen any time you need someone who understands. I wish your family the best!

Tracy

esg1 - Nov 21, 2009 6:17 pm (#5 Total: 7)  

Abigail's Mom (29 weeks, 3/21/05)  

I am so sorry your daughter became an angel but glad that your son is doing well. What a conflict. It is not fair!
Ellen

chantelle (baby ashleys mummy) - Nov 22, 2009 6:36 pm (#6 Total: 7)  

 

im so sorry that your daughter bacame an angel...but she will always be with you...im glad your son is doing well...my thoughts are with you...x

Grace's Mom - Nov 23, 2009 6:37 am (#7 Total: 7)  

^i^D'Lon Grace^i^ ~ Forever 3 ~ Missing you every second of every day!  

I am so sorry that your precious daughter became an angle. You are right, the aftermath of losing a child is the hardest journey ever. I know it firsthand. I am happy that your son is doing well. I cant imagine walking the fine line that you walk daily.

Take good care,
Yolonda



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