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Cora's Momma - 09:36pm Dec 13, 2009 EST

Cora died in my arms suddenly and unexpectedly while breastfeeding. She was only five days old. One moment I looked down and saw her peaceful face growing sleepy from breastmilk. A matter of seconds later, and I looked down to a limp, pale baby, face covered in blood, with no movement. I screamed, jumped up and realized she wasn't breathing.

My husband and I rushed her to the hospital, driving her ourselves.

Nothing could be done to save sweet Cora. She died in my arms, but was pronounced dead after the doctors heroically tried to revive her for over an hour.

We're still learning what happened to sweet baby Cora, but the preliminary report says that Cora was born with a congenital heart disease or condition. We await the final report to find out what condition.

Cora transformed my life. She wasn't a planned baby. I'll never forget taking a pregnancy test on Easter morning 2009 and realizing my life was changed forever. My husband and I quit smoking, struggled to provide financially, and totally changed around our lives.

After Cora was born, I was transformed even more. I've never felt such joy, happiness, patience, and compassion. That love is the only thing getting me through. Cora has touched so many even though she met few. She teaches us all compassion, patience, and to cherish every day.

Through Cora, I've learned more about congenital heart diseases or CHDs and focus on sharing her story to raise awareness of CHDs, which is the number one birth defect.

I'll continue to work to spread Cora's story forever and seek out others who can help.



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TonyaP - Dec 13, 2009 11:52 pm (#1 Total: 4)  

 

I am so sorry for your loss. I find it wonderful that you raising awareness. Our children change our lives whether they are here for a precious few minutes or a lifetime. She will live in your heart forever.

Tonya

Cora's Momma - Dec 14, 2009 1:47 am (#2 Total: 4)  

 

Thanks Tonya. I don't want any mother to experience this and hope to work to do something in Cora's name. She was so amazing, so full of light, hope, and beauty. My pregnancy, labor, and delivery were all so healthy and normal. Cora scored 9s on both Apgars and everyone committed how healthy she was. Something must be done to help detect this problem in other little babies like sweet Cora.

Lindsay W - Dec 15, 2009 5:11 pm (#3 Total: 4)  

March of Dimes Staff  

Hi Cora's Momma -

I'm so sorry to learn about Cora's passing. I can only imagine the shock and pain you and your husband must be feeling and you have my sincerest condolences.

The March of Dimes has an information sheet on congenital heart defects that discusses several differet conditions. (http://www.marchofdimes.com/professionals/14332_1212.asp) It may be a good place to start for some information. Once you know more about Cora's specific case, you may want to send an email to Askus@marchofdimes.com for more specific articles.

Thinking of you and wishing you some peace at this difficult time,

Lindsay W.
Pregnancy & Newborn Health Education Center
March of Dimes

KHolley - Dec 17, 2009 2:30 pm (#4 Total: 4)  

 

Welcome to Share. I am so sorry for your loss. I hope that you are able to find some comfort and healing during this hard time.

Katie



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