1 year today!
crazylee53 - 04:20am Dec 28, 2009 ESTI gave birth to and lost my twin girls at 23 weeks one year ago today. Needless to say the holidays were a little rough. It was exactly 6:00 AM 1 year ago and I dont know how to feel right now. I am just waiting for it to hit me which is making me really anxious. I am lucky enough to be pregnant again and I have made it to 30 weeks today
. My sister in law is also pregnant with twins and I cant help but kepp thiniking about how jealous I am. (but that's a whole other story.) I have such mixed feelings at the moment and I am trying to stay relaxed for this baby girl. Any advice on how to stay relaxed and deal with my anxiousness?
Jackie G
- Dec 28, 2009 3:19 pm
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Mom to Kimberly (25 wkr, now 6 yrs!) & Matthew (38.5 wkr, almost 4 yrs!) |
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I am sorry about the loss of your girls but so happy to hear you are 30 weeks right now! That is fabulous.
I wish I knew how to deal with the anxiousness that comes along with a pregnancy after a loss - I am sure if there was a "magic potion" we could bottle it and make a fortune! I haven't been through a loss, just a very premature birth followed by a full term baby (thank goodness!). The only thing that kept me sane? A supportive husband and Share. The women here really helped me out. I assume you have already seen the "pregnant and fabulous?" discussion but if not, I recommend you go there and find other women in your same shoes. They helped hold my hand when I needed it and I am not sure how I would have gotten through that 2nd pregnancy without them.
good Luck,
Jackie
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TrishloveTristan
- Dec 29, 2009 12:24 pm
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Welcome to share, I'm sorry to hear about your loss, I know that the pain stays with you even if you do move foward. Congratulations on the pregnancy and I Hope you can make it to 40 weeks
Best of Luck
Trish
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Angel Love
- Dec 29, 2009 6:43 pm
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I'm so sorry that you're having to deal with the holidays without your whole family there. I know how that feels too. I'm sure that your feelings are all over the place without the additional stress of watching your SIL go through a twin pregnancy. I hope that this pregnancy for you goes great and congratulations on 30 weeks!! Vent here any time.....LOL! Tracy 
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kaz
- Dec 30, 2009 8:31 am
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hope you find comfort here x
so so sorry you lost your little girls, the pain i no is unbearable, i am four months down the road after loosing my little man.
no words really help, but it does help to feel understood and the mummys and daddys here do understand,
hope and pray you continue as long as possible with your new little bundle and all goes well. your little girls are i am sure with u every step of the way. take care of u xxx kaz
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