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1 year today!

crazylee53 - 04:20am Dec 28, 2009 EST

I gave birth to and lost my twin girls at 23 weeks one year ago today. Needless to say the holidays were a little rough. It was exactly 6:00 AM 1 year ago and I dont know how to feel right now. I am just waiting for it to hit me which is making me really anxious. I am lucky enough to be pregnant again and I have made it to 30 weeks today . My sister in law is also pregnant with twins and I cant help but kepp thiniking about how jealous I am. (but that's a whole other story.) I have such mixed feelings at the moment and I am trying to stay relaxed for this baby girl. Any advice on how to stay relaxed and deal with my anxiousness?



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Angel Love - Dec 29, 2009 6:43 pm (#3 Total: 4)  

 

I'm so sorry that you're having to deal with the holidays without your whole family there. I know how that feels too.

I'm sure that your feelings are all over the place without the additional stress of watching your SIL go through a twin pregnancy. I hope that this pregnancy for you goes great and congratulations on 30 weeks!! Vent here any time.....LOL!

Tracy

kaz - Dec 30, 2009 8:31 am (#4 Total: 4)  

luca's mummy x  

hope you find comfort here x

so so sorry you lost your little girls, the pain i no is unbearable, i am four months down the road after loosing my little man.

no words really help, but it does help to feel understood and the mummys and daddys here do understand,

hope and pray you continue as long as possible with your new little bundle and all goes well. your little girls are i am sure with u every step of the way. take care of u xxx kaz



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