Madisons mom
- Sep 4, 2012 2:40 am
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Good luck tomorrow Sam. Will be thinking of you. Going on Thursday to the doctor again. Still praying hard for this lil bean. Lauren wishing I would have taken your advice and bonded a little better with him. I tried so hard not to *feel* this pregnancy that now I find myself crying all day cause I'm gonna miss being pregnant. Then the other day I was crying cause I wanted him here already safe in my arms....my poor hubby lol...he thinks I'm bipolar now lol. I want to know he is safe in my arms but will definately miss being pregnant. Feeling those kicks from within is something I absolutley love. I'm going to miss them so much.  (think the hormones are making me crazy?)
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Madisons mom
- Sep 4, 2012 2:41 am
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proud to be the mom of this little fighter |
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ps...two more weeks to goooo!!!!!
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TrinitysMommy
- Sep 4, 2012 2:33 pm
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Jadon my 34 weeker, My Angel Trinity 25weeks, miscarriage 6 weeks 12/27/11, Jaxson 32 weeker |
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Lil man looks good. 3lbs 12oz. Fluid levels holding on and BP looks great. Just want to make it 4.5 more weeks.
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esgf
- Sep 4, 2012 7:19 pm
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James's mom
- Sep 4, 2012 10:25 pm
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So I'm 12 weeks tomorrow. Was thinking about this number last week. And pops into my head that this is half as long..., not only half as long as I was pregnant with James, but half as long as he existed.
I don't really know what to do with this thought...
I told my hubby through tears, and he said "James still exists with us" but that's not how I see things.
I FINALLY have my next regularly scheduled prenatal tommorrow. Annoyed it's with a nurse pratictioner, so not sure what we're going to learn that I don't already know (i.e. my blood pressure is fine and I've gained 5lbs...) The scheduling lady claimed "you have to see everyone in the practice". Well there's no way in hell a nurse pracitionar is going to deliver me, so I'll put my foot down when they make the next appointment. I'll get appointments with the Obs or I won't bother seeing them again... (I can get changed to the MFM practice I'm sure).
Natalie
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Madisons mom
- Sep 5, 2012 3:32 am
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proud to be the mom of this little fighter |
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I hated our nurse practioner when I was preggo with Maddie. I blame her a lot for Maddies prematurity. I wasnt feeling good and knew something was wrong. TOld her I was having incredible stabbing pains and still she said *your fine* she heard the heartbeat...if she would have just stopped pushing me off and done a sonogram she wouldve seen why I was having so much pain and maybe couldve helped a bit. Switched drs this time...smaller practice...only two docs and my doc said I only had to see him cause he promised he would deliver...feel so much more comfortable now.
Yes girlies two more weeks till I meet my little man. Doc wanted to deliver me this friday at 36 weeks so not to take chances of me going into labor with the way I was cut with my section last time but now decided we want a complete full termer so he is going with 38 weeks....Sept 21st. Cannot wait to meet my little bean. So excited...want it to fly. Keep us in your prayers that he will be safe, healthy and happy in my arms then. xoxo
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Aileigh
- Sep 6, 2012 2:12 pm
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Proud Mom to Ryan 33 Weeker Now 7, Nick 37 weeker now 4, and Eligh born 01/25/13 full term |
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How is it that I am 17 weeks and just now wondering IF I can actually do this? Seriously, the last few days have been nothing but anxiety. It never dawned on me until now. I have been having trouble breathing and I have been on anti-depressant long enough for it to have kicked in. It sucks. I don't want to say anything because the thought of an upper CT scan is less than appealing to me. And I know that is what they will do. I see the doctor tomorrow and I will be discussing it with her. But I am afraid of what she will say. I am sick and tired of shots. And I am not even halfway there yet. It all feels very overwhelming right now.
Sorry for the rant. Needed to vent!
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TrinitysMommy
- Sep 6, 2012 3:05 pm
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Jadon my 34 weeker, My Angel Trinity 25weeks, miscarriage 6 weeks 12/27/11, Jaxson 32 weeker |
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OVERWHELMED and all I want to do is cry... terrified this is all to good to be true. I was doing so much better but then Monday hit and I feel like I'm losing it!!!
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Jackie G
- Sep 7, 2012 2:05 am
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Mom to a 25 weeker who is now 8 years old and a 38.5 weeker who is now 6 |
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Ladies - I'm not going to say, "don't worry", because that would be hypocritical. I was a mess when I was pregnant with Matt. I was nervous all the time and stressed out like crazy. So what you are feeling is completely normal. That's what's great about Share - you know there is a true reason for your insanity and we're all here to listen and let you know that you are not crazy.  Hang in there!
(Aimee - please talk to your dr about the breathing issues. breathing is one thing that is definitely NOT optional!!!) Hugs!
Jackie
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TrinitysMommy
- Sep 7, 2012 11:03 am
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Jadon my 34 weeker, My Angel Trinity 25weeks, miscarriage 6 weeks 12/27/11, Jaxson 32 weeker |
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Dr appointment today!!! Another headache! Gonna be a long day!
Samantha
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esgf
- Sep 7, 2012 12:37 pm
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Abigail's Mom (29 weeks, 3/21/05) |
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Hope you ladies get some answers and a tiny bit of relief from your doctor's appts
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TrinitysMommy
- Sep 10, 2012 12:49 am
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Jadon my 34 weeker, My Angel Trinity 25weeks, miscarriage 6 weeks 12/27/11, Jaxson 32 weeker |
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I see the specialist tomorrow again. BP has been up and down and crazy headaches gonna talk to them tomorrow! Praying for no whammies!
Samantha
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esgf
- Sep 10, 2012 1:16 pm
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Abigail's Mom (29 weeks, 3/21/05) |
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Keeping my fingers crossed
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TrinitysMommy
- Sep 10, 2012 5:42 pm
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Jadon my 34 weeker, My Angel Trinity 25weeks, miscarriage 6 weeks 12/27/11, Jaxson 32 weeker |
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Ugh fluid levels are lower on the low.side of normal. Thought I got.off this rollercoaster weeks ago!!
Samantha
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tucker'smom
- Sep 10, 2012 6:34 pm
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Mom to Tucker (27 weeker, 05/26/06) |
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I just want to tell you all good luck! I'm not pregnant anymore (Easton is 3 weeks old today), but I am starting to realize just what a nervous wreck I was, being pregnant with Easton was very nerve wracking. So you are all in my thoughts and prayers, Jessica, SO excited that you have gotten so far!! I hope you all get to full term and happy and healthy as well!! Leigh
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TrinitysMommy
- Sep 11, 2012 11:12 pm
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Jadon my 34 weeker, My Angel Trinity 25weeks, miscarriage 6 weeks 12/27/11, Jaxson 32 weeker |
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Got my lab work back blog is up!
Samantha
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stacyat
- Sep 13, 2012 3:03 am
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Mom to Emilyn and Hailey (our 20 week angels) and Elim (our 38 week, full term miracle)! |
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Keep Samantha and Jaxson close in your thoughts and prayers, our little Share baby is joining us today by c-section at 32w4d. He was having some worrisome decels when she went in after significantly increased movement.
If you're friends with her on facebook, please keep this on the down low and say nothing on her wall until she has posted herself.
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Akeelah's Mommy
- Sep 13, 2012 5:39 pm
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A moment in our arms, a lifetime in our hearts. |
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Can't wait to see pictures of our newest lil' Share baby!
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TrinitysMommy
- Sep 13, 2012 10:21 pm
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Jadon my 34 weeker, My Angel Trinity 25weeks, miscarriage 6 weeks 12/27/11, Jaxson 32 weeker |
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oliviasmommy1120
- Sep 14, 2012 5:36 am
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Hey Everyone!! I haven't been on here in almost a year!! I'm sorry for not posting pics of Will. He has kept me very busy. He did good at breast feeding until he was almost a month old and then I couldn't keep up with him anymore. Then when I switched him to formula he became colicy and broke out in a rash. So he was switched to allimentum. The doctors noticed that his head was not forming properly and he wasn't gaining any weight. At 6 months he was out of the clear for his weight. He just started physical therapy, because his head is flat in the back and for torticollis (spell?). We get his helmet next monday and we are also scheduled for occupational therapy for his motor skills. He's 10 1/2 months old and still isn't sitting up or crawling, but he will get there. Other than physical things he's been a very healthy baby and I know his big sister is looking down on him every day. Oh...his weight and height is now 17 lbs and almost 25 inches long and that was at the end of last month. Thank you everyone for the support throughout my pregnancy. I don't know what I would have done without ya'll.
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James's mom
- Sep 16, 2012 2:40 am
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I thought the further I got (13wks now) the better/happier/more calm I'd feel. But no. The past week I've been more down than I've been in months.
Had my 12wk u/s serum screen Monday. The day before I was so pissed off/sad. Tried to go on nice hike with hubby & dogs, but instead I layed into hubby with my bad/sad mood! Trying to talk about arranging the house for baby, disagreed about minor things, and I got worked up. I told him maybe I wont survive this time so he won't have to worry about how I'd like the house!
As you can imagine this depressed him, since he thought I might not survive when James was born... Not a good day.
I hoped I'd snap out of it Mon. after the 12wk appt (which went fine) but I didn't.
Shouldn't I be getting more excited and happier the further I get? Sigh... This just sucks to worry if I'm going to die and worry if this baby is going to die.
On lighter note, the appt. was good, I lucked into schedule with the drs who treated me before, this was such a relief (was worried I'd have some u/s tech who I'd have to explain my history to), it was calming to be seen by the MFM fellow & MFM attending who consulted/treated me before. They were both so kind.
Best news, the placenta is in the back, so no risk it could be over the surgical scar! Just wish it was possible to see on u/s what I had before, but they can't, and they reminded me (i) they can't see that detail, and (ii) there is no way lighting is going to strick me twice on this.
But somehow still had a bad week... Didn't help I was swamped at work, 10hr days, coming home late to fall into bed no energy to walk dogs with hubby, and I get mad when I can't walk with them! Need to do some work from home tomorrow to try to catch up. I hate to work on weekends, but the week ahead is just as busy if not more, and no way I can accomplish in 8hr days what I've got to get done...
Natalie
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Madisons mom
- Sep 25, 2012 4:15 am
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Hes here!!!!!! Keith Jr...(KJ)...FULL TERM, HEALTHY AND HAPPY!!!!!
Cannot believe how estatic I am...happy just wouldnt describe it. Maddie is over the moon in love with him. I finally became one of *those moms* that made it to term and left the hospital with my baby in my arms...so happy.
Thank you all for all your prayers and well wishes. We are so grateful xoxo
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lvazquez
- Sep 25, 2012 1:42 pm
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Mom to Donovyn (32 weeker), Tristyn (34 weeker), and Naethyn (30 weeker born sleeping) |
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Jessica - KJ is soooooo adorable! You all look so happy! Look at Maddie in her big sister t-shirt! So sweet! You did girl! Congratulations!!!
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esgf
- Sep 25, 2012 2:52 pm
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Abigail's Mom (29 weeks, 3/21/05) |
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CONGRATULATIONS!!!!! what a beautiful family
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javbmom
- Sep 25, 2012 11:52 pm
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Jessica I love all the Pictures. Congrats!
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Angel Love
- Sep 26, 2012 1:45 am
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AHHHHHH!!!!!!! I feel like Maddie in that last picture!!!! He's adorable and I'm so over the moon happy for ya'll!!!!! I can't wait to meet him in person.......by the way, can I come "over"??? LOL!!!! 
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liz loschinskey
- Sep 26, 2012 1:26 pm
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Congratulations Jess!!!!
I love Maddie in her picture!!!
You did a great job momma! Beautiful pregnancy and beautiful family!!
Love ya
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James's mom
- Oct 2, 2012 1:39 pm
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Hi, Thought I'd post the 1st pic of me where I actually look pg. At beach on Cape Cod 2 weekends ago (wk 14). About the last beach weather in New England and I wanted to get a belly shot. Excuse hubbies thumb, he's not the best photographer... I asked him "Do I look pregnant or do I just look fat?" He wisely declined to answer! Although I hope I make it much further this time, I really don't like looking prego! I'm sorry I don't feel comfortable enough to attend Share Union. I'll be 19wks then and I don't want to stress over being worried about traveling... I would love to meet you all, but will need to be next year (when I don't plan to be pregnant)! FYI, after ~22 wks I don't think I'll even feel safe to go out to our beach-house on the Cape. There's not a big hospital there and I don't want to be that far from my intended hospital in CT.
Natalie
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stacyat
- Oct 2, 2012 6:48 pm
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Mom to Emilyn and Hailey (our 20 week angels) and Elim (our 38 week, full term miracle)! |
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Aww, love it!! Love that little baby belly, and I'd say you definitely look preggo and not fat. Don't stress about not coming out to Share, you and baby are most important, if anyone understands why you wouldn't feel comfortable travelling while pregnant it would be us!
Stacy
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Akeelah's Mommy
- Oct 2, 2012 11:48 pm
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A moment in our arms, a lifetime in our hearts. |
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You look fabulous!!! Total no worries about not being there this year- we all totally get it and look forward to hopefully seeing you next year!
Continuing to hope for a most uneventful pregnancy!
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James's mom
- Oct 17, 2012 5:57 am
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Hi, Question then update. I heard ShareUnion will have a session on trying-again/pregnancy after loss. Any chance this speaker/session can be recorded? This would be such an excellent resource! I'd be more than happy to purchase as a DVD if that could be worked out (or maybe could be posted on-line somehow? ) Update= started progesterone 17 injections (at 16wks). Relieved. It was annoying that 2 drs in this group practice think P17 is controversial & don't think I need this, while most recent 3 drs I've seen have been enthusiastic supporters of P17 for me, since I went into labor at 24wks 5days last time. Annoying differing opinions..., but I was going to insist on the injections, now I've got them. Not crazy about it being from a compounding pharmacy (what with recent sterile practice issues at that pharmacy in MA, but hopefully the pharmacy I'm using has better aseptic practices!! I could come give them a seminar I've done lots of sterile drug development). Taking a pre-natal to parenting 6wk class by a most fabulous social worker. I joined cause I thought it would ease trauma of going to back to the hospital if I go there weekly for class. I love being around happy/positive pg ladies, I'm still down & worried & anxious even being around them, but this is helping me to not fall apart, I just wish I could be hopeful like they are... I freaked out last Fri, had discharge & felt it coming out (felt like when I was hemorrhaging with James, & also felt like when I had spotting at 8wks). I was pissed it was a Fri night as I couldn’t see my dr all weekend. Called 1st thing Mon am & got appointment. Amniotic fluid looks correct, baby was moving all around, and best news of all, my cervix felt correct (that’s what I was worried about). Also I’m relieved to get advice that I should take myself to the ER / labor & delivery if I have any worries what-so-ever. I was nervous even just to bug the nurse’s Mon am (really debated rather I should bother them by calling), but the dr said I shouldn’t feel bad about contacting them & I should just take myself to the hospital if I feel even slightest bit not-right.
Natalie
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stacyat
- Oct 17, 2012 3:18 pm
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Mom to Emilyn and Hailey (our 20 week angels) and Elim (our 38 week, full term miracle)! |
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Hey Natalie! We do have a session with trying again/pregnancy after loss included and you may be in luck with the video!
Glad you got the 17P injections, I credit those with keeping my son in full term after going into labor and delivering my girls at 20 weeks! My doctors opinion on it was can't hurt, might help so why not! I got mine from a compounding pharmacy and never had any issues, that was before Makena came out and decided to charge an arm and a leg for it though.
So happy that it was nothing to worry about, I know even the smallest thing can send us into panic! Don't feel bad about going in, it's what they get paid for!
Stacy
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James's mom
- Oct 31, 2012 3:37 am
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Had our 18wk detailed u/s last week. I'm still with the regular Ob, so this was one of my last visits with the MFM (unless things go south & I become a patient of the MFM group...)
Baby is fine, and a girl! I was hoping for another boy, as I had gotten all prepared for neat things hubby would get to do with a baby boy and I was dreaming of this again.
But I think a girl will be easier on me, I won't get so mixed up missing James with this baby of the other gender, I think...
She's fine, one little cyst one one side of brain that freaked me but drs were not worried, and since I have a 2wk repeat cervical check they'll re-check cyst then and they expect it will be gone.
Unlike a "normal" pregnant lady, I was more relieved to get my baseline cervix digits at that appointment than anything about baby-girl. My cervix looks "really good", plenty long (2.5 cm is good, mine was 4.5 cm). re-check next week will re-confirm that it's "sufficient". Fingers crossed please!
by-the-way, Hannah (we think) after my grandmother. A grand old lady who passed last year at 102 years young. May Hannah live as long & be as happy, funny and kind as my grandmother.
Natalie
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tucker'smom
- Oct 31, 2012 1:47 pm
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Oh Natalie, Yay for a great appointment and a good cervix!! Congrats on a baby girl! And I love the name Hannah I hope that everything continues to go well for you, and I'll look forward to pics of a cute little newborn! Leigh
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Akeelah's Mommy
- Oct 31, 2012 10:16 pm
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Natalie- I'm so thankful to hear such a positive update! Our 2nd was a boy, and although like you, I was disappointed at first, I did find it "easier" to not be dropped back into the girl world which I associated so closely with Akeelah. Having a different gender I think really did help me bond and even though no child could ever replace another, help me remember that since they were so different.
Although perhaps completely unrelated to our pregnancy kidney (pre-e) issues, last week I had a pretty nasty kidney stone. I think it was more related to not drinking enough water during SU and just going going going... but I'm a lil' worried about permanent damage... will check in with my PCP next week, and hopefully a nephrologist in the future...
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tucker'smom
- Nov 1, 2012 3:40 pm
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Mom to Tucker (27 weeker, 05/26/06) |
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Oh yikes, Lauren!
DH had a kidney stone once and it was the most excrutiang pain he ever had. So sorry!
I hope your PCP tells you that everything is fine.
Leigh
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Jackie G
- Nov 5, 2012 7:27 pm
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Mom to a 25 weeker who is now 8 years old and a 38.5 weeker who is now 6 |
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Akeelah's Mommy
- Nov 12, 2012 12:47 am
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A moment in our arms, a lifetime in our hearts. |
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Just wanted to check in on our wonderful preggo mommas!
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James's mom
- Nov 16, 2012 11:57 pm
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Im hanging in there but anxious, anxious, anxious! Had follow-up cervical length (CL) check a week ago Monday (at 20wks).
But the follow up wasn't very good, it wasn't "oh-my-god-this-is-awful" but it's a slippery slope. CL had dropped from ~4.5 or 5cm (initial at 18wks, fabulous!) down to 3cm (at 20wks). That may not sound like a big deal but it IS a BIG deal. Normal pregnancies (that go to term) CL does not change at all ~18wks to ~26wks. During this time decreasing CL is slight risk of preterm labor & <2.5 cm is a huge risk.
If CL stays >2.5cm, I'm only ~15% risk of preterm.
If <2.5 cm I'm somewhere 50% to 80% likely for preterm labor. I shouldn't read these medical journal articles late at night, wasn't able to sleep after reading "Managment of Pregnancies With Cervical Shortening: A Very Short Cervix is A Very Big Problem". Sigh...
Sucks to be this anxious. Saw the nurse practictior today to discus. She recommended meeting with the MFM social worker, so looking forward to that starting next week.
How have other dealt with the anxiety?
I'm two weeks earlier then when I went into labor with James at 24wks. They don't think I had cervix issue then (it was a placenta problem) but no one knows for sure, so could be I had cervix issue then too.
Can someone make time fast forward?? Please?? Skip right to the New Year when I'll be almost 30wks and baby Hannah's chances would be so much better if I go into labor.
Stay tuned for Monday's 22wk CL update. The MFM will do another detailed u/s for the heck of it too.
She jumps around like crazy. I've been feeling her since 15wks, and she's doing serious martial arts. I never felt James at all until 20wks, and he never had the karate chop that Hannah already has.
Natalie
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Akeelah's Mommy
- Nov 17, 2012 7:31 pm
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Natalie- Aw man, I'm so sorry to hear the news that there was a change in CL. I was hoping no news was good news. I am hopeful that your next appointment will bring at the very least the same length, and maybe more. I think many of us here have taken very mindful steps to manage the anxiety that comes with a subsequent pregnancy. I really see it as just as important to manage and care for yourself and your mind as it is to take those prenatals. For me, taking things one step at a time were really helpful... though I might have taken it too literally and when our 2nd finally came I was almost surprised to have an infant because I had never really looked up from our journey to fully realize I might actually bring a baby home! It was a pleasant surprise. I also made sure I knew what appointments I had coming up and took comfort knowing I had doctor's I could text or call if I was too worried... and that they wanted me to call. I also saw a psychologist who helped get my head in the game. It all really helped ease the transition and got me through our bumps. Keep the updates coming!!
Lauren
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James's mom
- Nov 20, 2012 4:59 am
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Good appointment. Yay! Cervical Length's not decreased (was 3cm at 20wks, and still 2.83 cm today at 22wks). Huge relief... I'm pretty pesimistic so had grabbed my already packed bag for the hospital on way to this appointment, just-in-case. Thankfully not needed. Relieved that I finished the day going to work rather than being admitted! Only two instructions. First, call/get to the hospital right away if I have cramping contractions that don't go away with lying down/hydration. Second was "have a very boring rest of the pregnancy". I hope I can follow that instruction! I have had some very slight/light contractions on occasion and this freaks me out!!! Wish it didn't happen ever! But they tell me its normal (so long as goes away if I lie down). Sigh, would be so much better if it never happened & I didn't have to worry. The baby looked fine, she's developing normally. They could see her face for the first time this time. She's always been looking away before. (Camera shy?) I didn't realize that they calculate weight off of these measurements. She's right on track for 22wks, at 1lb 5 oz. Althought they can't visualize anything about the placenta it's a relief to know she's growing at right rate, which must mean the placenta is working correctly for now. They MFM will recheck CL (& I assume recheck her growth too) at 24 wks & maybe 26wks. Then if all is okay I should go back to only being seen by the regular Ob group. Happy Thanksgiving, and here's to wishing it was New Years already.
Natalie
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esgf
- Nov 20, 2012 1:29 pm
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Natalie,
Congratulations on a great appointment. What a relief. I hope 24 weeks goes just as well.
Ellen
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Akeelah's Mommy
- Nov 20, 2012 6:17 pm
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Natalie- So thankful things are holding steady and glad you'll still be doing follow up to keep an eye on things!
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James's mom
- Nov 25, 2012 10:26 pm
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Belated post. A sweet little thing that made me think James is watching out for me and little-sister-to-be Hannah.
The day after our 18wk ultrasound, when we learned it’s a girl and she’s ok, I was going around the house tending the house plants, including James’s hyacinth. (Potted flowering hyacinth sympathy gift from the one set of friends we invited to otherwise family only funeral for James back in May).
Hyacinths are supposed to flower in the spring. I was shocked to see fresh new stems poking out of the potting soil next to the old fading green stems. One of them covered in sweet purple flowers. The flowers have since shriveled as it’s the wrong time of year to be growing and flowering, but somehow that plant flowered the day of and the day after we found out Hannah is okay at wk 18.
I’ve never heard of hyacinth flowering in October. I think James wanted me to know he is here, and he knows he’ll have a little sister.
Miss that little boy more than usual today… I’m 23wks 4days now. Every Sunday morning the pg app on my i-phone tells me what to expect in the coming week/fetal development. I woke up this morning to the message about week 24. God I hope Hannah and I and my husband make it past this week ok, almost as much as I wish our little boy had survived being born at 24weeks and 6 days.
It will be another week till I have a check-up by the specialists to measure cervix, so have to make it through this coming week first. I do see my regular Ob this coming Friday, but that won’t tell me anything other than how much weight I’ve gained (which is more than necessary)! Please keep us in your thoughts.
Natalie
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Akeelah's Mommy
- Dec 4, 2012 11:49 pm
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Natalie- I love that the Hyacinth bloomed! Isn't that amazing!? A lil' Hey Mommy from your sweet James. Hope things are going well.
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James's mom
- Dec 5, 2012 12:27 am
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Smooth sailing at yesterday's 24wk cervical length check up at the MFM. No shorter, same as before just about 3cm.
I actually was happy on the drive home. It's strange to feel happy, been so long that I've just been anxious.
Of course today is more sad. Every time this baby-girl kicks (which is a LOT & strong) it reminds me how James didn't move much in-utero & I wonder if that was just him, or if the placenta wasn't providing enough, so that he didn't have the energy to move. I'll never know & always wonder... Miss that little boy at same time I'm happy all seems ok for Hannah.
Go back in 2wks, at 26wk, for final visit with MFM. For One more cervical chk plus an anatomy/growth scan. She's growing I can tell! I'm so huge already! Can barely reach my feet to change my socks & can hardly get on/off couch & bed. Not sure how I'll be able to bend at all as this continues!
Natalie
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Akeelah's Mommy
- Dec 6, 2012 12:03 am
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Natalie-
YAY for things staying the same. I also thought that Micah kicked more than Akeelah... and that made my heart ache. At the same time I wonder if I was also paying so much more attention to each kick because I knew how quickly they could stop as opposed to Akeelah when I thought we would have 40 happy weeks of kicks and summersaults.
Hugs momma!
Lauren
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Akeelah's Mommy
- Dec 6, 2012 12:03 am
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Hey Folks, Starting a series on navigating through the holidays... stop on by! Lots more posts on the topic to come from some awesome Share mommas! Community Blog
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tucker'smom
- Dec 10, 2012 9:54 pm
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Hi Natalie,
That's great to hear that everything is going well! Keep us updated!
Leigh
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James's mom
- Dec 11, 2012 12:18 am
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Okay little thing here, but BIG annoyance... Why do all the darn maternity tops have big giant boat neck-lines??? I'm not talking the nursing tops (which actually cover more, what with little inside panel). I mean the regular maternity tops. If I wanted all my bras & undergarments to show everywhere I could just get cheap sweatshirts & rip the neck out (a-la Jennifer Beals/flash dance).
These maternity cloths options really irritate me, doesn't look professional to have bra straps hanging out everywhere. Gggrrrr
Nat
p.s. Made it thru last wk, which was really hard, & now we R 25wks, a week further than James got to. I'm trying to stay calm but I get so so so sad missing him at every thought... Had c-section childbirth prep class Sat. It was really good, thankfully run out of a different hospital, even so hubby & I cried during the maternity floor tour. For me when we stopped to see the nursery, for hubby when nurse was describing the postpartum room. How R we going to get thru this when Hannah is born???
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stacyat
- Dec 11, 2012 6:40 pm
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Mom to Emilyn and Hailey (our 20 week angels) and Elim (our 38 week, full term miracle)! |
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Hahahaha!! They're all almost either showing way too much or t-shirts.
Yay for 25 weeks and past the big scary week! It's definitely hard to go back there but if you're prepared it will be a little easier. Just take it as it comes and hopefully you'll be so busy you won't. I know I was a bit emotional when I did the hospital tour but by the time it came to have Elim it wasn't nearly as hard.
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Akeelah's Mommy
- Dec 12, 2012 6:38 am
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Natalie- Congratulations making it to 25 weeks. It's a big milestone to pass. I was very scared about the labor because it was sooo scary with Akeelah. We wrote out a birth plan and were thoughtful of how we wanted to include Akeelah in the birth of her lil' bro. It helped to bring some peace. It was emotional, but in a good way.
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TrinitysMommy
- Dec 12, 2012 2:39 pm
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Jadon my 34 weeker, My Angel Trinity 25weeks, miscarriage 6 weeks 12/27/11, Jaxson 32 weeker |
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Aimee, aka Aleigh is heading to the hospital with contractions. Procardia isnt helping! She is going to update me when she gets settled. Prayers would be greatly appreciated she isnt due for 9 more weeks.
Samantha
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Akeelah's Mommy
- Dec 12, 2012 6:04 pm
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Thanks for the update Samantha. Aimee we're thinking of ya! Very glad to know the fFN was negative. Keep posted when you can!
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stacyat
- Dec 13, 2012 5:29 am
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Mom to Emilyn and Hailey (our 20 week angels) and Elim (our 38 week, full term miracle)! |
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Aimee is at home and on "couch" rest and they've upped her procardia dosage! She's doing well right now just hanging out!
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James's mom
- Dec 18, 2012 12:24 am
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Had regularly scheduled every two week cervical length check this am (@ 26wk, 5 days) & cervix is MUCH too short. Dropped a lot in length from 2wks ago. Was ~3cm long then, is ~0.6cm now, but thankfully
not dialated. They admitted me to check for contractions, I'm having tiny ones though can't feel them much.
Bed rest & meds to stop contractions. Was hoping oral (nephamitade, sp??) so I could go home on bed rest, but tiny contractions came back after trying that. So am on IV mag sulfate, icky
ickey hot& still not stopped, so on Indocine now too. Please pray this stops the
contractions & I dont dialate.
Got 1st dose of steroid to mature Hannah's lungs just in case.
my goal is to try to make it to 30wks at least.
The staff has all been buy to say hi, because they all remember us from before.
This sucks so much to have this happening at 26wks 5days...
Natalie
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Akeelah's Mommy
- Dec 18, 2012 2:26 am
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Oh Natalie, I'm so sorry! I was so hoping you'd be sailing right through!! I'm thankful things were caught quickly and that they're keeping a close eye on you... though so sorry you're on mag! That stuff is evil!!!! But if it helps keep you to your 30 week goal! Glad those nurses remember you, you'll be taken well care of!
Keep posted when you can!
Lauren
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tucker'smom
- Dec 18, 2012 5:48 pm
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Oh Natalie, I am sending huge hugs!! I'm so sorry! And mag is just awful, I am sorry that you are on it. And I suppose they'll keep you on it until you deliver, so you are hoping for weeks on it. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers as I remember how I felt after a few days on it. I am so sorry that the oral meds didn't work, I am hoping that you get to at least 30 weeks, I will look for updates! Leigh
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Akeelah's Mommy
- Dec 18, 2012 9:04 pm
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Natalie- Just checkin' in on ya... how ya holding up today?
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stacyat
- Dec 18, 2012 11:40 pm
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Mom to Emilyn and Hailey (our 20 week angels) and Elim (our 38 week, full term miracle)! |
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Oh gosh Natalie, I'm so sorry! Tons of hugs and prayers that things hold out for awhile longer!! I'll be keeping an eye out for updates.
Stacy
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James's mom
- Dec 20, 2012 12:05 am
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Please keep prayers/thoughts coming for us. That Hannah can have another day & another day inside. (They tell me to think day-by-day goals). She's gotten 48hrs of steroids in her/me now & the mag. stopped my contractions (that is so awful to be on but it works).
Im now on strict hospital bed rest & we R praying for no more contractions.
I'm so scared. Scared to move wrong, scared to go to the bathroom, just in utter shock that I'm here again with preterm labor.
My husband (Harry) & I are numb. Trying to just make it safely to tomorrow. We R 27wks today.
Natalie
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Donna S (Dec 20, 2012 4:23 pm)
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Akeelah's Mommy
- Dec 20, 2012 1:18 am
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Natalie, So glad to hear you are hanging in there and that you were able to get the steroids. 27 weeks is totally substantial... at the same time I'm keeping everything crossed for many many many more days and even weeks. It can happen. I'mma ask a momma who spent quite a bit of time on hospital bed rest come on and post. She has a lot of great tips for attempting to stay sane! I heart her completely! Please update if and when you can. Lauren
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stacyat
- Dec 20, 2012 3:09 am
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Mom to Emilyn and Hailey (our 20 week angels) and Elim (our 38 week, full term miracle)! |
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So glad that your sweet girl is hanging out there in safety for another day! Wonderful about the steroids being on board for full effect! Hoping for many more days for her though!
Stacy
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Donna S
- Dec 20, 2012 4:23 pm
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Replying to:
James's mom (Dec 20, 2012 12:05 am)
Please keep prayers/thoughts coming for us. That Hannah can have another day & another day inside. (They tell me to...
Hi Natalie! Just wanted you to know I'm thinking about you and your sweet girl. I was admitted at 23 weeks 4 days with an abruption. Steroid shots, magnesium sulfate, and strict hospital bedrest. My doctor told me I'd be there until 32 weeks, or delivery, whichever came first. The mag is the worst stuff, but it does work.
One day at a time, definitely. Listen to your body. And don't ignore your instincts. Make good friends with your nurses. Eat. So glad you have a computer!! I didn't have that when I did my bedrest stint. Make your room as homey as possible. My family sent pictures of my nieces and nephews. My husband brought in pictures of our puppies. He also brought in a dvd player, a fan, and a boom box. I don't know about you, but the mag made me feel like I was on fire all the time. The fan helped. My oldest sister sent me a basket of treats and brainless magazines. Don't have high expectations for your mental capacities...the mag makes that difficult. I couldn't read or carry on coherent conversations very often. I did keep a journal. That helped SO much. Whether you blog here, or write it down, it helps. And now my baby will have that when he's ready.
Take care of you. Focus on the positive. Know that we're here cheering you on. That baby I spent 16 days of hospital bedrest with? He's 12 years old, born at 26 weeks exactly. He spent 93 days in the NICU, and came home on Christmas Day, 2000. He's perfectly healthy and amazing in every single way.
Keep me posted. Feel free to message me. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers.
Hugs!
Donna
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Arnara
- Dec 20, 2012 11:44 pm
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Hello Natalie: I am so sorry you are currently at the hospital, but I am so happy to hear you are hanging there I know how extremely stressful it is to be pregnant after a loss (I also lost a baby due to prematurity labor) and be in bedrest in the hospital. Try to keep positive, I had a strange ritual, each hour of each day I was pregnant I said a little prayer.... I was admitted at almost 24 weeks with Valentina, and she was born at 28 weeks, she did great in her NICU stay, less than 70 days. Doctors explained to me she had many things on her favor, her steroids shots, she was a girl (girls do better in NICU) she was little over 2 pounds, and somehow, Drs. still don't know why, babies whose moms had a "stressful" pregnancy in hospital do better.... The best advice I can give you, try to have positive thoughts, visualize your future with your lovely baby girl Hannah, day dreaming I used to say, and don't think about what is ahead, you can make it, like yourself I hang in here, and there were lots of great moms that gave me hope, there was a mom that stayed little over 3 months in hospital, literally hanging from her feet. Ask all the questions you can think, keep a cold head (I know it is hard but it is necessary) watch your diet, spicy or heavy food can trigger contractions little bit, and eat healthy food, to make your baby heavier . As Donna said keep a diary, write all your emotions, thoughts..... Good luck and hang there hugs Lorena
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Akeelah's Mommy
- Dec 21, 2012 12:31 am
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Hope you and lil' Hannah are doing well today!
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James's mom
- Dec 21, 2012 12:29 pm
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Another boring day/night yesterday (i.e. contractions did not return) My fav. Ob dr encouraged me to go home & continue bed rest at home. at this point nothing more they can do for me in hospital (& I'm candidate for home bed rest since at last chk 2days ago cervix was still "thick" not effaced yet & Ill get back to hospital in a heartbeat if I feel different).
All the drs & nurses tell me gravity is not my friend now (stay flat as much as possible) & think positive, every day is a blessing. I know all of this, but knowing it & being able to embrace thinking positive rather than freaking out is easier said...
I got too nervous yesterday pm to leave, so am not home yet. But I'm feeling brave today, & we R going to go try for more days at home. 27wks & 2days now.
Donna, thanks for note & advice! I'll re-read it later & try to absorb being positive!
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Donna S
- Dec 21, 2012 4:07 pm
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Mom to Ryley, 26 weeker, Grace and Ethan, full-termers |
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Natalie - Be brave!! I think the comforts of home would go a long way in keeping positive, but I get the freakout. At least in the hospital, you're *there*, and you get monitored frequently. But oh to be in your own bed, in your own house, with your own tv. Thinking of you. Keep us posted!!!! Yay for 27 weeks 2 days. One day, one hour, one breath at a time. HUGS!
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Akeelah's Mommy
- Dec 21, 2012 8:04 pm
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Natalie- Encouraging that they feel you would be ok at home, and yet I totally feel ya on the freak out. When I was in the hospital with our 2nd for a week I was totally wanting to go home at the same time thankful to be where I knew I was safe. It's almost like a no win.
Keeping you in my thoughts, thanks for keeping the updates coming. We're all rooting for you and lil' Hannah!
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James's mom
- Dec 24, 2012 12:57 pm
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Well here we are a week past when this fear of loosing her too early started. It's been a queiet weekend at home.
I'm calm most of the time only terrified when I have contractions in a row. Go most of the day without any, and then early evening or before bed have ~3 in a row in a half hr or so. So scary! But thankfully they've stopped each time (I'm already lying down, but flip to my left side & drink yet more water...).
Harry is so overprotective and attentive & sweet. He'll make such a great father if we get to.
I'm starting to believe the hoped for outcome may happen. I try not to dwell on I'm what I know could happen... 27wks 5days today. Yay!
Natalie
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Donna S
- Dec 24, 2012 6:11 pm
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Mom to Ryley, 26 weeker, Grace and Ethan, full-termers |
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Natalie - So happy to see an update. Sorry...I've kinda been stalking. 27 weeks 5 days is awesome!!! Hang in there friend. Yay for supportive, overprotective, attentive and sweet hubbies. It's so hard on them to not be able to do any more than that in this situation. One day at a time. Hugs!
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James's mom
- Dec 28, 2012 4:28 am
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We are 28wks 1 day today. I'm glad, but so freaked out/ bummed to be dealing with this again (big blog post).
I have ~3 contractions in a row once or twice a day. Dr says this is likely just going to happen and only be worried if ~6 in one hour. Also had um breast leakage start two days ago and that freaked me. (I know it happens towards the end of pg, but this should not be near the end yet!!!) And I swear this morning it feels like I can start to feel something up/inside "down there" so I'm sure baby is dropping lower and/or my cervix is dialating ever-so-slightly more.
I know it is impossible to stop this progression, but I don't want any of this happening now! I'm doing all I can (flat essentially all day, water water water, and Nifedipine and wkly P-17).
She's just giving me big kicks/jabs in the belly, at least one really good thing... Hannah's VERY active in there, so I know she's ok.
Natalie
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Akeelah's Mommy
- Dec 29, 2012 7:12 am
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28 weeks is sooo substantial. I continue to hold out hope for 30+ of course. I'm so glad that Hannah is being very active for you... good girl! Lauren
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Carri Masda
- Dec 30, 2012 10:46 pm
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I am currently 24 weeks pregnant with my 3rd child. I was able to deliver my first at 37 weeks and my second at 36 weeks with significant strict bed rest between between weeks of 21 to 32 // And modified pretty strict still bed rest for the remainder of the pregnancy. This time around, I had a cerclage placed due to IC at 12 weeks (which was a nightmare due to sever bladder spazms) and P17 shots starting at week 15.
I was doing well with cervical mesaurements until the last two weeks. I was 4.2cm until week 22. At week 23 I was 3.5cm and week 24 my cervix measured 3.0. I have my 25 week appointment in 2 days including a FfN test. I am praying to avoid bed rest with this pregnancy. I have placed myself on a modified bed rest the past several weeks due to severe pressure (pelvic/abdominal) and it constantly feels as if a tampon is falling out from between my legs.
Anyone have a similar situation?
Thanks.
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Akeelah's Mommy
- Dec 30, 2012 11:50 pm
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Carri- Welcome to Share. So sorry you have had such complicated pregnancies and that this one is following suit. I hope your next appointment shows that things are holding steady for you and your lil' one. I'm hopeful that with the cerclage things will hold and perhaps you can avoid bed rest.. which lets face it is anything but restful!!
Keep posted when you can, and if you would like to be added to the expecting list just let me know!!
Lauren
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Carri Masda (Dec 31, 2012 3:23 pm)
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Carri Masda
- Dec 31, 2012 3:23 pm
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Replying to:
Akeelah's Mommy (Dec 30, 2012 11:50 pm)
Carri- Welcome to Share. So sorry you have had such complicated pregnancies and that this one is following suit....
Lauren-
Thanks.... Have you heard of people with a cerclage that totally avoid bed rest all together? Also, do you know what is normal regarding the rate the cervix shortens...what is acceptable?
Thanks.
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Akeelah's Mommy
- Dec 31, 2012 11:20 pm
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I don't have IC, but due to previous PTL took 17P and bi-monthly cervical checks. I remember our MFM saying anything above 3 he was totally happy with and that it could vary a bit appointment to appointment. I remember having the same question as you, what are normal measurements by trimester, wish I could remember the answer he gave me! All I can remember is 3+. Keep posted after tomorrows appointment, I'm keeping crossables crossed that things will be at the very least the same.
Natalie- How are you holding up momma?
Happy New Year!!! Crossin' crossables we have no surprise 2012 babies!!
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Donna S
- Jan 2, 2013 9:49 pm
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Just checking in for an update from Natalie. How ya doing?
Carri - Wishing you well. Sending thoughts your way!
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Carri Masda (Jan 2, 2013 10:00 pm)
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Carri Masda
- Jan 2, 2013 9:57 pm
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24 Week Update:
My cervical length measurement has been unchanged from last week...thank goodness. So, my history is as follows:
4.2cm from 16 weeks to 21 weeks
3.5cm week 22
3.0-3.2cm week 23
3.0-3.2cm week 24 ( I will find out the results of the FfN tomorrow which I presume will be negative.) There is no funneling present with or without fundal pressure.
My Perinatologist has told me that with a cerclage she is unconcerned with cervical length after 28 weeks altogether and will watch it until 28 weeks although a FfN test is what she relies on more than the cervical length (after 24 weeks.) As long as my cervical length does not shorten below 2.5cm, especially with funneling, she will not even look at the cervix any longer after 28 weeks. And with this I should not have bedrest. However, this is my 4th pregnancy (I lost one last may in the second trimester) in a 3 year time period so all of the pressure and feeling of "something falling out" is ligament relaxation. It feels just like cervical incompetence that I experienced in the past which put me on bed rest.
I have 2.0cm from the internal os to the cerclage so I would in theory experience bleeding if my cervix tried to shorten below 2cm, I would certainly know.
For now, I continue with my weekly cervical measurements until week 28, my weekly P17 injection until week 37 (cerclage removed at week 36- anyone know how that feels?) and biweekly FfN hoping for negatives...
Will keep you posted.... I am praying that my cervix will hold strong at 3cm until 28 weeks according to ultrasound and I can easily get to 36 weeks to have my stitch removed.
Any ones experience is greatly appreciated!
Thanks,
Ps. Please excuse any typos.
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Carri Masda
- Jan 2, 2013 10:00 pm
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Replying to:
Donna S (Jan 2, 2013 9:49 pm)
Just checking in for an update from Natalie. How ya doing? Carri - Wishing you well. Sending thoughts...
Thank you Donna! I am new to the website... Are you currently pregnant and if so how are you doing?
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Carri Masda
- Jan 2, 2013 10:07 pm
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I found this which is a helpful reference:
The length of the cervix is expected to shorten as a pregnancy progresses, but a length of 3.0 cm to 3.5 cm isn't expected until 32 to 36 weeks:
At 16 to 20 weeks, normal cervical length is 4.0 to 4.5 cm
At 24 to 28 weeks, normal cervical length is 3.5 to 4.0 cm
At 32 to 36 weeks, normal cervical length is 3.0 to 3.5 cm
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A short cervical length between 14 weeks and 24 weeks is a strong predictor of preterm birth:
Length less than 1 cm: Mean birth gestational age 32 weeks
Length less than 1.5 cm: Mean birth gestational age 33 weeks
Length less than 2 cm: Mean birth gestational age 34 weeks
Length less than 2.5 cm: Mean birth gestational age 36.5 weeks
Source: American Journal of Obstetrics & Gynecology, June 2000, and FamilyPracticeNotebook.com
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Akeelah's Mommy
- Jan 2, 2013 10:34 pm
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Carri- Thanks for sharing that awesome resource! That's so helpful to have. Glad things are holding steady for you- here's hoping things remain that way! I'm very sorry for the loss of your 3rd pregnancy. We're rootin' for ya!! Natalie- Hoping no news is good news!
Lauren
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James's mom
- Jan 3, 2013 3:30 am
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No Updates lately because I've been in hospital again since Sat night/Early Sun & its all been so scary!
News Flash!!! Hannah's here & doing awesome for a 28 week-er (28 wks 5 days, & mins away from being 28 wks 6 days...)
I've wanted to post earlier but I'm so unbelievably exhausted.
Hannah Charlotte Culver, 2 lbs 12 oz, 15 cm long, and drumroll, born at 11:58 pm Mon, 12/31 a New Years Eve baby!
I really thought about asking the surgeon to go slower, as I realized when I glanced at the OR clock after spinal was in that if the dr went fast she'd arrive before New Years, but I didn't say anything. Thought it really wasnt my place to suggest he slow down...
Nurses were all irritated at the doc as they had hopes we'd be the first New Year baby in Connecticut (I was only patient on labor/delivery at UConn hospital on New Years Eve. Instead doc was fast & she's a 2012 baby. They told me Yale New Haven (CT) hospital called to rub it in that Yale hospital had the states New Years baby (at 6 min after midnight). Sounds like a friendly rivelry, would have been fun to have been the New Years baby, but none of that matters compared to her arriving safely!
She's been on c-pap only, with room air (no intubation needed & no O2 needed). She has " binkie privileges" meaning she doesn't forget to breath when she sucks, so they let her have pacifier, & she got 1st two feedings (gastric tube to belly) of my pumped milk today. Her nurse let me push in the second tube feeding.
I was hoping she'd stay inside longer, but feel so blessed that she's doing so well since it wasn't possible to delay labor any longer.
I've got to go to bed now. So exhausted (but I'm healing fine from surgery, just not getting enough sleep.
Natalie
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stacyat
- Jan 3, 2013 3:50 am
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Mom to Emilyn and Hailey (our 20 week angels) and Elim (our 38 week, full term miracle)! |
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Natalie, huge hugs and welcome Hannah!! I'm so glad to hear that she is doing so well and hope that she continues to. I can't wait to hear more about her!
Stacy
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Akeelah's Mommy
- Jan 3, 2013 7:08 am
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Natalie- Aww momma! Congrats on your sweet Hannah! Perhaps she was the last CT baby of 2012! May her NICU stay be short an uneventful!! Congrats!! I know James is so proud of you and his lil' sis! Update when you can... and oy, sleep when you can too!
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tucker'smom
- Jan 3, 2013 2:59 pm
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Carri,
Welcome to Share! I hope that the rest of your pregnancy goes well, and thank you so much for posting the information about cervical length.
Natalie,
Congrats on the birth of Hannah!! Wow, to be born just two minutes before the New Year, how crazy is that! I know so well the feeling of wishing that you could have kept your baby baking longer, but WOW for a 28 weeker to not even need the vent? Yay!! You did good, momma! Keep us updated. The first few weeks post partum with a little one in the NICU are so tough...the recovery along with pumping and visiting baby....we are all here for you!!
Hugs,
Leigh
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Donna S
- Jan 4, 2013 11:14 pm
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Mom to Ryley, 26 weeker, Grace and Ethan, full-termers |
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Natalie - Congratulations on Hannah's birth! So happy to hear she's doing well. Happy New Year! Sending thoughts your way. Keep us posted. Carri - Glad to hear things are hanging in there for you. I'm not pregnant, I just stalk around here every once in awhile. My youngest baby is 8 years old. My 26 weeker is 12 years old.
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Akeelah's Mommy
- Jan 5, 2013 1:06 am
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OMG Donna, is she really 8?!?! Seriously, when I joined Share... she was what 3 1/2... 4? OMG I just felt myself age.
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James's mom
- Jan 8, 2013 7:51 am
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Hannah is 7 days old today, and doing amazing (blog post). No issues no set backs. Everything has gone better than we could have dreamed. I know she is still at so much risk of infection and other things but she is such a strong little girl I really am feeling positive that we'll make it safely with her out of the NICU and into our home.
I'm exhausted but so much less achy and none of the awful hot flashes and cold sweats like before. I think my body must have been in shock after surgery and loss of James, and none of that now.
Natalie
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Donna S
- Jan 13, 2013 12:32 am
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Mom to Ryley, 26 weeker, Grace and Ethan, full-termers |
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Yay Hannah!! Keep it up little girl!! Sending thoughts and prayers for a continued good path in the NICU. Glad to hear you're feeling better too Natalie. Take care of you.
D
Lauren - Yes, 8. Well, Ryley is 12, Grace is 11 and Ethan is 8. They were 4.5, 3.4 and almost 1 when I joined Share. Crazy, right?
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esgf
- Jan 13, 2013 2:16 am
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I am so glad to hear that you and Hannah are doing better. I hope each day is a bit better. Keep us posted!
ellen
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James's mom
- Jan 14, 2013 10:41 pm
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2wks old today and Hannah is chugging along with so far no issues. Yay! She's up to just over 3lbs now (3lbs 1.5oz). They were able to get peripheral IV on day 9 since umbilical IV had to come our on day 10 (so glad she didn't have to get more invasive pic line), & IV has held so she didn't have to get re-stuck (Nurses said often IV only lasts hrs to days, but Hannah's has lasted 5 days). They'll stop IV nutrition tonight & she'll be just on breast milk (via gastric tube)
Her one issue, they tried human breast milk fortifier (calorie & protein powder) & it upset her tummy (poor girl says mommies milk ONLY please) but thankfully her digestion is fine. They will see if she can tolerate the fortifier again in few days.
I've held her against my skin a few times. This is very sweet & she likes it, but makes me a little sad thinking of James, wasn't safe for us to hold James until we knew it was too late. So we only held James just briefly before saying goodbye to him. And Harry had said being held by us was the only thing James ever wanted...
Also scary to hold Hannah as if her chin gets tucked her breathing & O2 can suffer. Luckily the nurses are right there to help reposition her.
Very cool that UConn hospitsl has a MofDimes coordinator. Thanks Jeane L. for the MofDimes scrap-booking today & if mom's Kim & Tina are in here it was so nice meet you!
Natalie
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Carri Masda
- Jan 15, 2013 12:05 am
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26 Week Update: My cervical length is 3.5cm with no funneling with and without fundal pressure. This is good. We have 2 more weeks of cervical checks. I also had a FfN today so I am sure the results will return tomorrow. I presume it will be negative since the cervix still looks so good. Unfortunately, I have atypical PUPPS (rash)...what an itchy nightmare. Sadly enough, it doesn't go away until you have the baby so if in fact it is PUPPS, I will be induced at 36 weeks when the cerclage is removed to obtain relief from the PUPPS.
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jjjacob22
- Jan 15, 2013 12:37 am
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Hi, I'm new to this board, but used share a few years back with the birth of my 26 weeker (who is now 3 years old and doing great!)
I'm currently pregnant with my 2nd son at 23 weeks. At 21 weeks I was put on bedrest due to a shortened cervix at 2.3cm with funneling as well as severe cramping. At 22 weeks, cervix measured 2.7cm with no funneling. Doctor says the funneling could have been caused by the cramping I was having at the time. I had a Ffn test at 21 weeks as well which came back negative. My next appt is this Thursday and they will do another Ffn test, not sure when they will check cervical length again.
It's really stressful to be off of work and have a 3 year old running around when you are trying to rest.
Hoping to avoid another preterm labor this time around!
Julie
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Carri Masda (Jan 15, 2013 1:42 am)
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Donna S
- Jan 15, 2013 12:57 am
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Natalie - Kangaroo'ing is the best, isn't it? Sooo happy to hear Hannah continues to be a NICU rock star.
Carri - Continuing to keep you in my thoughts. Yay for 26 weeks and good measurements.
Julie - Welcome back! Congratulations on your pregnancy. Stinks that this one is giving you issues as well. Grrrrr bedrest, especially with a toddler. Praying FFN's continue to come back negative and you can hold this little one in a long while longer.
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Carri Masda
- Jan 15, 2013 1:42 am
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Replying to:
jjjacob22 (Jan 15, 2013 12:37 am)
Hi, I'm new to this board, but used share a few years back with the birth of my 26...
Hi...You sound just like me with my first two. Except I was on strict bed rest with them. I take 600mg motrin around the clock and this time around I do the P17 (progesterone injections) also....I have an irritable uterus so between the motrin and progesterone it is keeping the cramping to a minimum. I still have some intense cramping- worse than with the first two but they beleive that is due to the cerclage being in place - cramping against a suture essentially.
Sounds like you could benefit from getting the cramping under control. Maybe you can ask for progesterone suppositories or injections....? As well as motrin?
Good Luck. I know how hard it is. I only care about a healthy baby.
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jjjacob22
- Jan 15, 2013 3:36 pm
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Cari - I am getting the progesterone injections weekly, we started at week 16. They haven't said anything about Motrin yet. Doctor said I wasn't a candidate for a cerclage, so they are just going to continue to monitor with cervical length checks and Ffn tests. I'm hoping to make it through with a healthy baby
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Carri Masda (Jan 15, 2013 5:00 pm)
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Carri Masda
- Jan 15, 2013 5:00 pm
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Replying to:
jjjacob22 (Jan 15, 2013 3:36 pm)
Cari - I am getting the progesterone injections weekly, we started at week 16. They haven't said anything about...
I had a cerclage at week 12.....although I totally did not qualify for it, my perinatologist knew that it would help the pregnancy along and make things more stable as she knew I have 2 babies at home already. I took motrin with my last two and I do it with this one. I have to take the motrin or else I cramp nonstop. It really helps me. Ask about it Good Luck!
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Akeelah's Mommy
- Jan 19, 2013 7:40 am
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Just poppin' in to do a lil' cheer for all our preggo mommas! If you'd like to be added to the expecting list, please IM me or just write a note here.
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yashira0124 (Jan 21, 2013 9:35 pm)
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yashira0124
- Jan 21, 2013 9:35 pm
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Replying to:
Akeelah's Mommy (Jan 19, 2013 7:40 am)
Just poppin' in to do a lil' cheer for all our preggo mommas! :) If you'd like to be...
I would like to be added to the list. I am 21wks and 4 days and I am a high risk pregnancy. Hoping this baby is born as healthy as can be!
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Akeelah's Mommy
- Jan 22, 2013 9:32 am
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yashira0124- I will add ya. When is your due date, your name (if you would like to share), and if you are expecting a lil' boy or girl. Glad to see you in this thread and I am crossin' all crossables you are here with your lil' one cooking for many many many weeks!
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TrinitysMommy
- Jan 24, 2013 10:37 pm
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Jadon my 34 weeker, My Angel Trinity 25weeks, miscarriage 6 weeks 12/27/11, Jaxson 32 weeker |
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Aimee is on her way to the hospital! Contractions 7min apart will keep everyone posted!!
Samantha
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TrinitysMommy
- Jan 25, 2013 8:34 pm
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Jadon my 34 weeker, My Angel Trinity 25weeks, miscarriage 6 weeks 12/27/11, Jaxson 32 weeker |
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Aimee had her baby today. Eligh arrived 6lbs 15 oz 18.5 inches! Way to go Aimee! Happy Birthday Eligh!
Samantha
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Akeelah's Mommy
- Jan 26, 2013 3:09 am
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Woo Hoo!! Congrats Aimee & welcome to the world lil' Eligh!
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lvazquez
- Jan 26, 2013 4:44 pm
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Mom to Donovyn (32 weeker), Tristyn (34 weeker), and Naethyn (30 weeker born sleeping) |
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Congratulations Aimee! Happy Birthday Eligh!
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TrinitysMommy
- Jan 27, 2013 10:07 pm
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Jadon my 34 weeker, My Angel Trinity 25weeks, miscarriage 6 weeks 12/27/11, Jaxson 32 weeker |
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Sorry Lauren Eligh is 6lbs 5oz didnt realize i added a 1 should have used my phone!
Samantha
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esgf
- Jan 29, 2013 1:06 pm
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Abigail's Mom (29 weeks, 3/21/05) |
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Congratulations Aimee and Eligh
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Akeelah's Mommy
- Feb 9, 2013 1:17 am
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Mauigurl
- Feb 17, 2013 9:32 pm
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Can I be added please, my name is Ashley, EDD is July 13 don't know the gender of our baby yet
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Akeelah's Mommy
- Feb 17, 2013 11:58 pm
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Hi Ashley! I'm so glad you found your way here. I'm Noreen's friend Lauren. I'm rootin' for ya! So many knowledgable mommas here who have been in similar situations and done extended stays on bedrest. Any questions you have ask away! I added ya to the list! Lauren
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Jami Haddock
- Feb 18, 2013 2:13 am
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Hi Ashley and Welcome to Share. I'm sorry your dealing with such a rough pregnancy but I'm glad you found your way to Share. We are all here for you. I hope you follow Lauren's advice and consider starting a blog. I will be thinking of you.
Jami
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tucker'smom
- Feb 18, 2013 4:31 pm
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Mom to Tucker (27 weeker, 05/26/06) |
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Hi Ashley, Welcome to Share! You definitely found the right place on the site for expecting mommas. Bedrest is rough, but so worth it in the end. We are all here to cheer you on, keep us updated as you can!
Leigh
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Cassiecas
- Feb 23, 2013 7:56 am
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Hi Mommies! its been a while since I been here but I originally became a member of the share family in 07' when my I had my son Tommy at 31 weeks. He developed NEC and was left with 45 cm of intestine. Now he is a big smart 5 year old and attending Kindergarten. Im actually expecting again with my second this times a girl . Im 28 weeks today and have been getting weekly injections of Progesterone to help hold the baby. Im very excited and hoping I can keep her in longer! If I could be added to the expecting list I would appreciate it, Cassie AKA Cassiecas 28 Weeks Preggo with Baby Girl Aurora 5/19/13 , Tommy Story NEC if anyone wants to share their experience with Progesterone or NEC or Pregnancy after Preemie im all ears! Im gonna post a belly pic 
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stacyat
- Feb 23, 2013 2:45 pm
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Mom to Emilyn and Hailey (our 20 week angels) and Elim (our 38 week, full term miracle)! |
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Cassie: Hey! Welcome back! Congrats on your current pregnancy!! I'm sure getting closer to Tommie's birth week is a bit scary, I know it was for me! I fully credit 17P for getting my son to full term! We had a couple of scares and admissions but we were able to hold him off! I think if I hadn't had those injections the contractions would have been stronger and changed my cervix more. So glad that you've found your way back to Share!
Stacy
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Akeelah's Mommy
- Feb 24, 2013 6:05 am
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Welcome back! What a beautiful picture!! Love that I now have My Adidas in my head now too! Added you to the list and am looking forward to updates on your new lil' lady and big bro Thomas!
Lauren
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Akeelah's Mommy
- Feb 25, 2013 4:23 am
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Jami Haddock
- Feb 25, 2013 6:16 pm
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Cassie,
Welcome Back! I also used 17p injections with my last pregnancy. I believed they helped tremendously with getting our little girl to 36 weeks! For me the side effects weren't very desirable but they were well worth it!! I can't wait to hear about your little girl's arrival. Also glad to hear about you now Big guy staring Kindergarten.
Please keep us updated.
Jami
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stacyat
- Mar 16, 2013 3:51 am
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Mom to Emilyn and Hailey (our 20 week angels) and Elim (our 38 week, full term miracle)! |
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Woah, only missed being on here twice by six months! Don't add me on here yet though, maybe after my first ultrasound on the 4th! Bloodwork looked great, HCG of 196 and progesterone of 19.7 so far so good!
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tucker'smom
- Mar 18, 2013 4:25 pm
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Mom to Tucker (27 weeker, 05/26/06) |
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Yay, Stacy!!
Let us know Leigh
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Carri Masda
- Mar 18, 2013 4:55 pm
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Just wanted to share a quick update....
I am 35 weeks. I have been as active as ever for the past several weeks. I have my 35 week appointment tomorrow. Just two more injections of progesterone, this week and next and my cerclage will come out at 36.5 weeks. Wish everyone luck-
Also, the cerclage and the progesterone really work and have been a blessing- Although, not without many many side effects such as bladder spazms and pulling as the baby grew, not comfortable at all!
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Akeelah's Mommy
- Mar 18, 2013 6:14 pm
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Wooooo hooo for 35 weeks!! So awesome! Keep posted after the appointment!
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stacyat
- Mar 18, 2013 6:47 pm
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Mom to Emilyn and Hailey (our 20 week angels) and Elim (our 38 week, full term miracle)! |
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Yay!! Congrats on 35 weeks!! That's awesome you've done so great!
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Cassiecas
- Mar 21, 2013 1:30 am
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Congrats on the 35 weeks! Im glad the progesterone/cerclage has been working for you Im gonna be 32 weeks in 2 days which is great because with Tommy I never saw 32! Im so glad to have made it this far along. I have been having some bad side effects from the progesterone injections. Ive been really nauseated for the past 3 weeks, and its beginning to effect my weight gain. Its so bad that I haven't been eating much or being able to take my prenatal pills due to the nausea. Im gonna see my doctor in the morning hopefully we can figure something out. Cassie
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TrinitysMommy
- Mar 21, 2013 1:34 am
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Jadon my 34 weeker, My Angel Trinity 25weeks, miscarriage 6 weeks 12/27/11, Jaxson 32 weeker |
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Carri - yay for 35 weeks!
Cassie- by 32 weeks I hate the 17P shots. I was so sick with my rainbow and didnt gain much weight. I hope you and your dr can figure out a plan.
Samantha
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Jami Haddock
- Mar 21, 2013 2:09 am
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Yay! For 35 weeks Carri. So happy for you.
Cassie- sorry your having a rough time with the 17p shots. I had bad heartburn and nausea on them as well. It was worth it in the end but made for a miserable pregnancy.
Good luck to you both!
Jami
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Akeelah's Mommy
- Mar 28, 2013 7:53 pm
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Just sending happy and healthy wishes to everyone! Hope to hear updates soon!
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stacyat
- Apr 6, 2013 2:39 am
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Mom to Emilyn and Hailey (our 20 week angels) and Elim (our 38 week, full term miracle)! |
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Had my first ultrasound yesterday, baby looks great with a heart rate of 128 and measuring 8.6 mm which is a day ahead in size! I'll be seven weeks tomorrow. I'm so excited to have this chance again, babies are a miraculous thing!
Something's gotta give with this nausea though, zofran isn't cutting it. I just want to curl up on my couch and cry all day long, knowing it may last another 9 weeks is incredibly overwhelming. I've put on sea bands tonight, we'll see if that helps any.
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Akeelah's Mommy
- Apr 6, 2013 8:13 am
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O M G, 7 weeks already? That's so substantial!! I really can not even imagine on the morning/all day sickness... that stinks!
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