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MICKEY'S FIRST DATE
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Jul 13, 2009 09:30pm (EST)
Mickey has had a girlfriend since the first week of school. A cute little red head named Josie. Oh, and she asked him!
Mickey and Josie started typing to each other on facebook just a few weeks ago (my acct and her mom's acct). One thing lead to another and voila, a "swim and picnic date" was set.
This past Friday, they met at our neighborhood pool for a swim and picnic. They were shy at first, but that didn't last long at all. They just talked up a storm. They swam and dove, chased and played...until another little female classmate showed up. She had some cool pool toys so Mickey gave her more attention then Josie. Poor little Josie was not all too pleased. She swam to the corner of the pool and just stood there. I asked Mickey to include her and to go over to her. He swam over and as I'm swimming with Woogie, I can see in the corner of my eyes...words...they were having words. LOL It was kind of cute to see a jealous little girl and a confused, clueless little boy. They worked it out in the end...well, I helped by setting up the picnic.
There was a perfect spot under a shaded palm tree for a picnic. I began to set up the blanket and arrange the food...then the sprinklers came on. Yikes! Oh well. Plan B.
We pulled two loungers together and I layed out the picnic blanket there instead. It was perfect! They were so cute just talking and eating together. Mickey even made Josie a ham cracker sandwich, but was so funny about handing it to her. He pretty much stuffed it in her face while not even looking at her. LOL
After a time of rest, they swam some more. By this time, the "other girl" went home so life was good again. They had so much fun that when Josie's mom came for her she didn't want to go. Both Mickey and she asked for her to stay longer. I didn't mind and since her mom, Kari, was preparing for their Florida trip the next morning, I offered to keep her while she ran errands. This was met with cheers from both kids.
We swam a little more then decided to go home for a little rest and cool air. Mickey was so proud to show Josie his train setup and his 2 BMX trophies. They watched some Tom and Jerry cartoons then decided they wanted to go to the movies. So I took them to Ice Age 3.
As we were driving to the movie theater, I took out my little camera and set it on my arm rest to "cool off". Little did they know that I was capturing them on video the whole time. Oh my goodness! The singing...well, Mickey's singing was so "painful" and their conversations were a hoot. BUT the BEST part was when she popped the question...
Josie: Are you allowed to have sleepovers?
Mickey: Yeah
Josie: Do you want to have one one day with you and me?
Mickey: You have to ask my mom about that.
Giggle, giggle! I couldn't believe my ears! It was too cute and innocent! I couldn't have made that stuff up if I wanted to. I caught it on video...all of it. Watch it here on my phamily blog.
They walked hand in hand to the movies and shared an Icee together. Mickey was a little taken back when Josie wanted to share a drink. He wrinkled his nose, but when she suggested two straws he came around. LOL
So, what was supposed to have been a couple hours of swim and picnic turned into a 7 hour marathon date of dates! LOL They got along so well and really enjoyed hanging out with each other. They were just so CUTE! I was so thrilled to have witness this special, unforgettable day.
Oh, and when we dropped Josie off, Mickey said, "I should have asked her to come watch me race tonight." Oh my!!!
pool hug copy
picnic copy
noodle copy
movie copy
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Posted by LilyGrace'sMom | Comments: (8) | Permalink
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SWIM LESSONS
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Jun 16, 2009 02:41am (EST)
My first week of summer was already busy, busy. The mutts started swim lessons last week. They so loved the water so I knew Mickey needed a refresher course while Lily Grace needed authentic lessons instead of swimming with her floaties.
Mickey did great as expected. He jumped right in and pretty much picked up where he left off last summer with this same teacher. However this year, Ms. Jennifer is teaching him more of the mechnical side to the free stroke. He's learning proper arm movements and leg kicks as well as breathing to the side. He's doing an awesome job! Of course his favorite part of the lesson is the last 5 minutes where he can have some free time...jumping off the diving board!
Lily Grace loves the water as well, however, she's never been without her arm floaties before which also means she's never put her face in the water while holding her breath. She started off blowing bubbles and after just 2 lessons, she was putting her entire face in the water and swimming 3 to 4 feet to Ms. Jennifer. Today, she didn't want to get out of the water when the lesson was over. She cried and whimpered as she crawled out.
One more week of swim lessons, but I think Lily Grace will continue onto the next level. She'll definitely want to go just to hang out with Ms. Jennifer more.
Today, I decided to bring along my camera and captured some great shots of them during their lessons. And of course, y'all know me, I had to photoshop them. LOL
Jac
Mickey Swim Collage copy
LG swim collage copy
LG swim collage 2 copy
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Posted by LilyGrace'sMom | Comments: (11) | Permalink
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M-O-T-H-E-R
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May 06, 2009 11:19pm (EST)
M…motivational
O…open-minded
T…teacher
H…honest
E…enthusiastic
R…respected
To all our Share moms, have a wonderful Mother’s Day!
Jac
PS. Join us for a live Mother’s Day chat here tomorrow, May 7th at 2pm EST with Melissa Middleton
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Posted by LilyGrace'sMom | Comments: (5) | Permalink
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TAKE FOUR: OUR PASSION FOR MARCH FOR BABIES
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Mar 09, 2009 02:55am (EST)
Every expectant parent looks forward to celebrating the birth of a healthy baby. Billy and I were no different. But each year in the United States, more than half a million babies are born too soon. Our Lily Grace helps make up this statistic.
The March of Dimes has made defeating prematurity a national priority, and Billy and I are excited to work along side them to help save the lives of babies. Babies like our daughter--born 6 weeks too early. This year, I am serving as a Family Team Partner...and will be volunteering at various walk events around the city. This year, March for Babies is on Sunday, April 26th at the University of Houston Robertson Stadium.
Most of you know our story. The following is a featured article that highlighted our story in the March of Dimes September 2008 eNewsletter.
With a two-and-a-half-year-old son as the love of our lives, we waited patiently and jumped for joy when those “you’re pregnant!” pink lines appeared in early 2005. We were thrilled yet very nervous and scared -- especially after having endured two previous miscarriages. However, things were going well and looking up for us.
Mid-July of 2005, diagnosed with placenta previa and preterm labor, I was placed on strict bed rest at home with around-the-clock medications to control the contractions. Then on August 2, while lying on the couch with my son, Mickey, I felt a strange sensation that warranted a trip to the bathroom. That strange sensation was caused by profuse hemorrhaging, which landed me on hospital bed rest for the duration of my pregnancy.
On the morning of September 19th, we welcomed our barely 34-week-gestation baby girl, Lily Grace, into this world by cesarean section. After a brief kiss, she was rushed to the NICU for more specialized care, while I needed some care of my own. Unfortunately, my placenta had adhered itself to my uterus, making it impossible to deliver, so an emergency hysterectomy was performed as well.
If not hitting the desired 36 weeks, having an unexpected c-section and an emergency hysterectomy, and seeing your baby girl rushed to the NICU were not enough, Hurricane Rita was heading for southeast Texas, adding to our stress. Nothing could have prepared my heart for the immense emotional and physical pain of evacuating the city two days later without my precious newborn. We had to leave our baby girl behind. Who could do such a thing? How could we do that to her? Would she know that we didn’t have a choice? How could we get through this?
After enduring six long days of heart-wrenching pain by being miles away, we were reunited with our sweet baby girl at last. The next few weeks found us next to her Isolette every day, holding and nurturing her until she became strong enough to come home on October 6.
Although Lily Grace came home with an apnea monitor and oxygen to use during feeds, she made tremendous progress in the NICU due to the research and medical advances accomplished by the March of Dimes. Without their emotional support and invention of surfactant therapy, Lily Grace would not be the happy, bouncy, healthy almost three-year-old she is today.
Without the March of Dimes, our lives with Lily Grace would not be possible. We know there are many, many worthwhile charities out there. In financial reality, we have to pick and choose the one or ones that are closest to our own hearts. This is the one closest to *my* heart. This is the one closest to *Billy's* heart. This is the one closest to *my families’* hearts. Prematurity does not just affect the baby - it affects the entire family! We all need to understand that placing resources with the March of Dimes...a time tested organization who's never failed a mission yet...will be an investment...not just in our families, but in our country's future.
Much love,
Billy, Jaclyn, Mickey & Lily Grace
Haynes Phamily Team
P.S. This year, a very good friend of mine delivered a son born 12 weeks too soon. Blake Joseph was born weighing 1 pound, 6 ounces – and is currently in the NICU. This year we walk not only for Lily Grace but also for baby Blake. We walk for Ava Marie who was blessed to be born healthy and full-term. We walk for a team walker, and a teacher’s unborn children and pray they get their full 40 weeks. We walk for friends who have yet to have babies…because EVERY baby deserves a healthy start.
M4B shirt front white LG edit
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Posted by LilyGrace'sMom | Comments: (8) | Permalink
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TAKE THREE: WHY I MARCH FOR BABIES
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Feb 23, 2009 06:30pm (EST)
Three years ago when I first participated in WalkAmerica, my reasons for walking was quite clear…Lily Grace and her early arrival. It’s only been recently that I’ve come to realize that there were more reasons that I walked, but that I’ve always just pushed them aside. It’s only been recently that I’ve come to realize that I walk not just for prematurity, birth defects and infant deaths…but for the babies I’ve lost.
A recap…
Take One: Miscarriage
Take Two: Michael William born February 15, 2003
Take Three:
When Mickey was about 18 months old, Billy and I decided we were ready to try for another baby. Again, we were blessed and conceived right away.
Everything was smooth sailing until October 2004 at just 11 weeks along, I started cramping and spotting. This time Billy was with me as we watched the ultrasound confirm yet another still, quiet heart…another heart break...the loss of our third baby.
“At least it was early on. Better now then later.”
“It wasn’t meant to be. There’s a reason for everything.”
“At least you know you can get pregnant again.”
“At least you have Mickey.”
A loss is a loss early or later. Is it really in God’s plan for us to suffer and hurt so much? Who could think of having another pregnancy after this lost? And yes, we had Mickey. We should be thankful and feel totally fortunate that we had a sweet baby boy to love, but it didn’t make the desire to want another one and the pain for the loss of another one any easier and less intense.
In years past, I walked for Lily Grace and her early arrival, and all the babies born too soon. This year, I will continue to walk for her and others. But this year, I walk with a greater passion…a new found perspective of loss and understanding. This year I walk for all the rainbows and butterflies who fill our skies. This year I walk for my two babies that I lost…actually they aren’t lost at all…I know exactly where they are…in Heaven waiting for me.
To participate, visit: www.marchforbabies.org.
Jac
Marchforbabies.org/lilygrace
Haynes Phamily Team
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Posted by LilyGrace'sMom | Comments: (11) | Permalink
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TAKE TWO
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Feb 14, 2009 05:59pm (EST)
Saturday, February 15, 2003
It was about 9 AM. Billy had left for work just 30 minutes before. I was lying around in bed flipping and flopping. Suddenly, I heard this little pop. The sensation of a trip to the bathroom overcame me so I waddled to the hallway restroom. I sat down. SWOOSH and more SWOOSH and more SWOOSH! My water just broke!
I called Billy and told him to come home. I called the nurse and waited for her office to call back. I called my sister to ask her to come. I was actually quite calm.
I jumped in the tub to wash off. As I got out…SWOOSH! I got back in for the second time. As I got out…SWOOSH again! Back in the tub again for the third time and as I got out…you got! SWOOSH! So I gave up and just sat on a towel on the floor and proceeded to put my make-up on and do my hair.
My sister barges in frantically.
“What are you doing? Do you have your bag? Isn’t Billy here yet? Oh my gosh! Put your clothes on. Let’s go!” All the while running around acting like a chicken without her head on! She was quite the sight given that she’s had 3 kids of her own, but I guess this was the first time for her to be “on the other side”. LOL
I assured her that Billy was on his way and that the hospital is expecting us as soon as well get there. Like a big sister though, she still rushed me out the door. LOL
After a few hours of relaxing and watching golf on tv while listening to Billy tell jokes to my OB, the Pitocin and Epidural did their jobs and I was ready to see my son. However, my desire to push was much greater than my body was ready for. After only 25 minutes of pushing, he came out kicking, punching, and tearing at my cervix…and more. It took the doctor twice as long to sew me up and stop the bleeding then it took for me to push him out.
The physical pain took another 3 months and weeks upon weeks of pain meds before I would fully recover and could return to work. But, that day was one of the happiest days of my life after having to endure that first miscarriage. I was more than beyond thrilled to see him, hold him, and love on him. I was in love.
I was totally blessed to have had this easy road and this perfect baby. I do know how fortunate I am…truly I do…now…but not then.
Take Three…more heartache to come.
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Michael William aka Mickey
Feburary 15, 2003 @ 4:17 PM
6 lbs 7 oz, 18 ¾ in.
37 weeks exactly
PS. Yes, pictures of him in the attic...don't ask. LOL
Mick polarized edit
Mick color edit
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Posted by LilyGrace'sMom | Comments: (9) | Permalink
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TAKE ONE
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Feb 03, 2009 06:21pm (EST)
When Billy and I started our family planning, we had no idea how easy yet heartbreaking it would be. January 2002 found us in our “magic” month. I wanted a Christmas baby so I thought we’d “try” for a few months in hopes for a winter baby. Fortunately, we were totally blessed and conceived on our first attempt that January.
All was well until one morning while at school, I started having the brown patchy spotting. I called my nurse, but they assured me that it was just residual discharge which was normal. It wasn’t until a few hours later that I noticed an increase with more pinkish tints. I called the nurse back and headed in to my OB’s office. Since they weren’t alarmed but just wanted to check things out, I drove myself especially since Billy was busying working giving golf lessons. (He was still in the golf business back then.)
I laid on the ultrasound table and diligently watched as my doctor scanned and scanned. After several minutes, I’ll never forget those words…”Jaclyn, I’m so so sorry. I can’t find a heartbeat. I don’t see a heartbeat. I’m so sorry. You’ve lost the baby.”
I sat in the parking garage and cried to Billy on the phone before I drove myself home.
That night as I laid in bed sobbing, Billy came in and said, “It’s okay, Baby. Do you know that if we never ever have another baby, I’m still the luckiest guy alive? I have you as my wife. You are the most important thing to me and no baby will ever change that.”
Take Two: The birth of Mickey coming soon.
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