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CHATTING ABOUT MATTERS THAT MATTER

Aug 01, 2007 09:32am (EST)

We have a special treat for our Share members! Next week, we are hosting our monthly Live Chat as we do each month. But this month we are honored to have a special guest "speaker" to join us.

We will be chatting about PPD - Postpartum Depression. Our chat committee asked Postpartum Support International if they could lend us an expert in the field.

I am pleased to announce that Birdie Gunyon Meyer, RN,MA,CLC Coordinator, Women's Mood Disorders will join our live chat to discuss postpartum depression.

We will be discussing:
Beyond the Baby Blues-- A Look at Postpartum Depression

How the trauma of the NICU affects your Mood

How do you know it's not "just" the Baby Blues

Where you can find help

The chat will be held here in the Community Center on Tuesday, August 7th at:
3 pm est
2 pm cst
1 pm mst
12 noon pst

Please mark your calendars and join us for this special occasion.
See you there!

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TIME FOR A LIVE CHAT!

Jun 29, 2007 10:12am (EST)

That's right - mark your calendars! It's time, once again, for one of our Share Your Story Live Chats. This Sunday evening, July 1st, log on to Share and come participate in live-time discussion.

Sunday, July 1

9:00 pm Eastern
8:00 pm Central
7:00 pm Mountain
6:00 pm Pacific

This month we're talking about dads. The fathers have their own burdens and their own ways to cope. Invite your husbands, or come talk about how the dads in your lives have dealt with, honored, celebrated their extraordinary children. Our guest speaker will be Todd, author of Share blog, Fragments of Fatherhood.

The chat room will open a few minutes prior to chat here in the Community Center. Hope you see YOU there!

In sticking with the dad theme, here are some of Share's daddies in action posted this week on the site:

mctriplets

steve cheyenne

webdesSepia

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HAPPY FATHER'S DAY!

Jun 13, 2007 04:09pm (EST)

Anyone who has spent some time browsing Share Your Story will see that the overwhelming majority of Share’s regular posters are women. But among these wonderful mothers, grandmothers and aunts we have found some really wonderful dads who have contributed beautifully to the site.

In honor of Father’s Day on Sunday, Karen ( DNASMOM ) has helped me collect some beautiful quotes from the Men of Share.

Happy Father’s Day, dads! Thanks for helping to keep the /Y/ chromosome represented with your wisdom and wisecracks, your heart and your humor, and most of all for your love for these amazing children.

From Todd, Elliot’s Dad, in his blog, “Fragments of Fatherhood ”:

"The kid doesn't need me yet. All she wants is food. It's just hard, with no purpose.

“Until yesterday or today...
Now she seems to like lying around on me and looking at my face. I play with her and she notices. She's ticklish. She has put her hand on my scratchy face a few times now, and her eyes get all big. She seems to be studying me. And she doesn't cry immediately upon waking. She hangs out with me now.

“I was feeling pretty useless. And now...
I'm in love all over again.
I get to be a dad all over again. This is so cool!”

From David, dloewenstein, in his short story :

“One of the most poignant lessons that I have learned based on Rachel’s heroic struggles is that we often never appreciate a blessing until the moment that it is lost. We have today to extend both love, appreciation and acceptance to others and to make our lives matter. We must also accept that life is not fair and that bitterness about the past is the corrosive that consumes the container which holds it.”

From Steve, gavinsdaddy, in his blog, “Hitting the Trails with Daddy and his Little Campers”:

“… I'm learning to stand in the shadow and guide them. Let them be independent but be there to give them help when they need it. Yes they grow too fast and when I'm 50 they will still be my baby boys! I will always be there to guide and protect them. That’s my duty as their dad.”

From Jason, spence, in his blog, “A Day in the Life of Spence J. Vitaliano! ”:

“This kid is so tough - makes me look like a pansy! He's quickly become quite the role model and well he gives me so much strength seeing him go through so much and then fight so hard to get back up - he just loves life and wants to be off this vent. I hope he gets his wish soon.”

From Rick, MarksTwins, in his blog "Charles and Lawrence Marks ":

"We know that Lawrence is now safe, healthy and comfortable. Thank you for caring about our little son and for keeping us all in your thoughts and prayers. We forever have two holes in our hearts for our twin boys but they are together again.

We now have two angels watching over us. Thank you Charles and Lawrence."

From Chris, ffemtp628, in Parent to Parent:

“Barb and I have, many times, wondered what if anything we could have done as parents to prevent this pain and stress in all three of our lives. We have seen so many other parents at the hospital who ignore all the do's and dont's of pregnancy, yet have healthy kids. Its hard not to ask why, that's just human nature… Even when it’s hard to see the positive in a situation, that doesn't mean that it’s not there waiting for the right moment.”

From Steve Chandler in his blog “Miracle Cheyenne ”:

“Could I handle seeing her? Could I be strong enough to see how small and fragile she was? Sometimes though it is best to not think and just react. I knew the answer as soon as he asked. I said yes, we walked over and there she was. Dark haired, very red and extremely small. I touched her. My first touch with my new daughter. She grabbed my finger. I could see her hands and feet were like mine. Long and gorgeous, she was gorgeous. I went back with Sherry and before the bay was whisked away Sherry saw her all swaddled up except her cheeks. Our miracle was just beginning.”

From Brett, Quad-Dad , in Parent to Parent:

“Growing up, my understanding of what Fathers do was formed by being around my own dad. They provide, protect, and care for their families in any and every possible way. That is their job.

“But in the NICU, that doesn’t feel like it amounts to much. I visited our children’s beds every morning before driving an hour and half to work; then turned around and drove back to see them late at night. Afterwards, I tried to spend a few moments of relative peace with their mother, before collapsing exhausted- only to repeat it all again tomorrow.”

From Michael, mignolan (editor of Miracles, MOD's e-newletter), in Parent to Parent:

"It some ways, the anguish of Will's early birth is more vivid to me now than it was as it was happening. When he was so new and so sudden, and as a baby so unlike what we had expected, he was in some way abstract, and so was the pain. As a nearly-three-year-old, I now know him, and I have an understanding of what it is to be a father, and for him to be my son. If I had any sense at the time of how magnificent a little boy he might become I don't know that I could have kept myself together. He's beyond my dreams of who a boy of mine might be."

From HawkeyeDAD, in his blog, “HawkeyeDad Space”.

“One of the highlights of my day is putting him to bed with his big orange blanket that he has to sleep with reading "The Cat in the Hat" for the millionth time, getting a hug and a kiss and knowing I will get to do it again the next day.”

And last but never least, our very own Share Community Host, James SooHoo on fatherhood:

“I was just sitting here wondering when I got so sappy. Yes, I have the Giants/Cowboys game on the tv (as an Eagle die-hard, I'm hoping they both somehow lose)....but I'm not really paying attention. I've gone in to Julien's room at least hundred times just to look at him.

“I used to roll my eyes at parents who said they never loved anyone as much as their children. Honestly, I just thought they were all twits. How silly was I? I'm not sure where that James went...but I don't miss him.”

Happy Father's Day to all the men of Share!

jason spence

Mike and Meek

pote guys

Todd Mall Elliot

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THANKS FOR THE WELCOME!

Jun 03, 2007 07:05pm (EST)

Share Community Coordinator here - reporting for duty!

Thank you all for the warm welcome and kind words. I appreciate the comments. I can't think of a community I adore more; I am really looking forward to serving Share and helping to maintain the kind of warm and supportive atmosphere that was there for me when I first arrived here in 2004.

Techno-geek at your service!

With warm sincerity,
Darcy

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DARCY: THANKS SO MUCH

May 31, 2007 01:43pm (EST)

You are such a wonderful person, and the March of Dimes is so very fortunate to have you as part of our family. Best wishes in this new endeavor.

Pam Education & Health Promotion Dept. March of Dimes

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ANNOUNCING OUR NEW SHARE YOUR STORY COMMUNITY COORDINATOR!

May 31, 2007 12:40pm (EST)

I’m thrilled to announce that Darcy Milder has accepted the March of Dimes staff position of Share Your Story Community Coordinator, reporting to me.

Before being hired for her new position, Darcy was a shining star as a March of Dimes volunteer. She started as a team captain for “Logan’s Angels” at the Quad Cities WalkAmerica in 2003. She then became their Ambassador Family in 2004. She was a Mission Speaker at numerous March of Dimes events in Iowa, such as Team Captain Kick-Offs, WalkAmerica, Chef’s Auction, a Baby Shower Luncheon, and the FCCLA state conference. She served as the Family Teams Chair for the Central Division as well as Chair of the State Chapter, before becoming the Iowa Mission Volunteer Liaison. She also served on the National Mission Volunteers Advisory Council.

Last year Darcy was approached by her chapter to write a Prematurity Curriculum to be utilized in the schools as an educational component to supplement human reproduction. As it turns out, Darcy had written curriculum before as a professor. Ideas were shot to Darcy and she took them and ran a full-out sprint! She included real life stories of preemies, and created interactive stations so the students would know what it was like to lug around an oxygen tank, figure out family finances with the costs of Prematurity, and what it might be like to be visually-impaired.

Darcy, of course, has also been a leading Share Your Story participant. Share Your Story and Darcy Milder have been intertwined from the beginning. As a stay at home mom who home-schools her three boys, she has found the online community to be an amazing support system where she has found a community, warm and compassionate, just like her. Darcy has posted over 7000 times, each touching a family in crisis, providing them a wealth of support and comfort.

Darcy’s participation has been multi-faceted, and always exceeds expectations when called upon. She has worked really hard to find ways for others to volunteer to help manage and maintain the quality of the site. In addition, she has often been asked to speak to March of Dimes staff around the country on why and how to promote the site in their communities.

In her new role, she will be a tremendous asset to me in providing technical assistance to you all as well as keeping the site on the cutting edge of community technology. She will assist me in marketing the site and will help provide logistical support for the annual Share Reunion held in October.

Please join me in welcoming Darcy!

- James

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ASK OPRAH TO DO A SHOW ON PREMATURITY!

May 16, 2007 02:28pm (EST)

Hi everyone,

Just wanted to let you know that we have a proposal in to the producers of Oprah on doing a show on premature birth as a silent crisis. Can you imagine how much exposure on Oprah would do to raise awareness of prematurity in the United States?

Help us convince them that is indeed a show worth doing! Please write in at: Oprah show ideas.

Each email submission should be their own personal story of premature birth and suggest that they include a March of Dimes spokesperson because of our Prematurity Campaign.

Thanks much!

James Share Your Story Community Host

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VOTE FOR SHARE!

Apr 11, 2007 10:06am (EST)

Hi everyone,

I’m pleased to announce that Share Your Story is up for a Net2Innovation Award. The project is now up for vote…so please cast yours! The Deadline is this Saturday!

You can do so by going to:

Projects/Vote

you’ll need to register on the site (it takes just two minutes). Then, you’ll need to pick at least 5 different projects. Make sure that SHARE is one of them!

You can find the full list at:

proposals

As an fyi…here is the link to our proposal: Share Your Story

Thanks much!

James

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NETSQUARED

Apr 09, 2007 08:05am (EST)

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WHERE IN THE WORLD ARE SHARE PARTICIPANTS?

Feb 17, 2007 11:24am (EST)

Here's a fun graphic. The below map shows where SHARE participants are located. Each dot represents someone who has logged in at least 50 times. While 91% of our users are located in the United States, SHARE reaches audiences around the world. Waving hello to our friends in Brazil!

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