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Hurricane Katrina Prayers and Actionabears - 09:25pm Aug 31, 2005 ESTPlease pray for the babies in New Orleans. Word is they are having to airlift them to other hospitals out of the area today. Also pray for those parents who are dealing not only with the NICU experience, but the experience of having their baby evacuated. I am following all coverage because I live in an affected area. I was fortunate. I have a home to return to once basic services are restored. Some of these parents have no home, and I am hearing stories that some parents were not allowed to stay with their babies (unconfirmed). Thanks,
Marcie Host Note: For what you can do, go to The Katrina What/How topic! Please, put all questions and directions in this new topic. THANKS!
Karri
- Sep 6, 2005 10:24 pm
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I just got up to speed after reading everyone's posts. The families here on SHARE, once again, amaze me, but never surprise me!!
I've shopped and prepared 2 care packages to mail, with the same basics everyone else has mentioned. They will be shipped tomorrow morning. As a little personal piece I made small (about the size of a burp cloth) sheet protectors out of fleece. I had purchased the fleece to make a baby blanket for a neighbor who recently had a baby. I lined each of the boxes with the fleece and then placed the items in the small box.
As I continue to watch the media attention (did anyone see Oprah today) my heart breaks with each story. I have this overwhelming need to go there, but know that's not possible for my family. Being able to make and send these care packages has given me a sense of helping in some way.
These families will rise above what has come upon them, and they will LIVE again. They will know that there are people in this world who do care, and do want to help.
Nancy, and Judi, I ask now. Is it okay to pass along this need to our own contacts, in our local MOD offices, families, and friends? Initially we were asked to hold off on that, until a better plan was in place to handle the packages. I'm anxious to spread the word of this great need.
Thank you all for your big hearts. I'm so proud to call you all my friends!!
Karri
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Brenda Rante (Sep 6, 2005 11:01 pm)
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Brenda Rante
- Sep 6, 2005 11:01 pm
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Replying to:
Karri (Sep 6, 2005 10:24 pm)
I just got up to speed after reading everyone's posts. The families here on SHARE, once again, amaze me, but...
Re: Hurricane Katrina Prayers and Action
Hi Karri,
I caught Oprah too and it was very disturbing to see. My heart sank and I had the same feeling about wanting to run there and do something more.......but reality hit that I could only do something from the sidelines.
So Judy and Nancy, do we spread the word for more care packages.......perhaps now for Texas?
I am also so very proud to be part of SHARE and MOD!!! This is a place where BIG HEARTS gather!!! Hugs to all.
Brenda & Benjamin (34 weeker born 12/24/99 with NEC)
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Nancy White
- Sep 6, 2005 11:54 pm
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Update from Judi
I received an email from Judi who asked me to pass along this information: YES!! More NICU baskets needed in Louisiana -- Want them to be very clear with their friends though -- only new things and only stuff really for NICU families....
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Judi Gooding
- Sep 7, 2005 1:06 am
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Yes, Please get the word to your friends...
I'm sorry that I haven't been on Share all day to say thanks and see the amazing things you are doing. It's been a long day (and weekend) with much of the time spent on the phone with our chapter staff or for them. And so I end my "workday" coming here to get rejuvenated and inspired by you.
First, let me say, please keep sending baskets for NICU families into Louisiana; and have your friends send too! Baskets can now go to our chapters in Louisiana, Mississippi, Texas and Alabama. But remember that the MOST NICU babies from the Hurricane are in Louisiana and that is also the chapter that has the NICU Family Support Project to help the families in other ways as well.
Little reminders:
The baskets (or gift bags, however you put them together) should be geared to NICU families (and think of them, for the most part in shelters, with little room). Everything in the basket should be brand new and the basket should be "self-contained" so our staff can hand it to a NICU family.
Baskets should be sent to our chapter offices, not hospitals or shelters -- they won't know who they are for and might get misdelivered, which would be a shame since you are so carefully thinking about NICU family needs.
Other needs now:
In Mississippi, Texas and Baton Rouge, the need is tremendous for diapers(all sizes) and wipes; newborn and infant clothing and maternity clothes. If you send these to our chapter offices, our staff will be sure they are delivered to shelters, hospitals and other areas where pregnant women, new moms and NICU families are being housed (for example, there is a church by the Woman's Hospital in Baton Rouge where only NICU families are staying while baby is in the hospital).
We are still asking for and receiving clothes from corporate partners (Gymboree, Motherhood Maternity and Children's Medical Ventures, so far), but much is needed.
If you send used clothing, please be sure that is is completely clean and in very good repair...I know we all want people to feel TOTALLY loved and cared for. And our staff cannot go through boxes -- we don't have that kind of manpower (or womanpower).
If you want to know what I think, it's that the need from you is greatest for the NICU baskets. The chapter is just begging for them (a few arrived today and they were so heartened!!). We can get other things from others -- and only you can make a NICU basket, you know? Remember that the note of comfort and support that you send with your basket might be the best thing in the basket!!
Starting tomorrow, we are putting information on our website about how to give (you can donate and we'll buy diapers instead of you having to buy them and ship them!!) and what each chapter involved is doing. This will expand over the next few weeks and evacuees are sent to more and more states. For example, 400 evacuees are on the way to Washington DC armory; our chapter is setting up a mobile "Mom and Baby Mobile" -- a medical care unit for pregnant women and newborns. Stuff is happening everywhere and we'll try to keep you posted. That goes up tomorrow afternoon.
For shipping your baskets:
Louisiana Chapter
March of Dimes
12015 Justice Avenue
Baton Rouge, LA 70816
(225) 295-0655
March of Dimes
Texas Chapter
8131 LBJ Freeway, Suite #115
Dallas, TX 75251-1311
(972) 669-3463
March of Dimes
Houston Division
Address: 3000 Weslayan, #100
Houston, TX, 77027
Phone: (713) 623-2020
March of Dimes
Mississippi Chapter
330 North Mart Plaza, Suite 1
Jackson, MS 39206
(601) 362-8947
March of Dimes
Alabama Chapter
450 Century Park South, Suite 200-B
Birmingham, AL 35226
(205) 824-0103
I've provided the phone numbers for your overnight or mail packages because sometimes its needed. Be cautious about calling the chapters (especially Louisiana) because they are so overwhelmed with things they are doing with moms and babies there. Just post here -- even when I can't get to SHARE, Nancy is letting me know if you have questions.
I know you all will be glad to know that Liza Cooper is heading to Baton Rouge tomorrow early to work with our two March of Dimes staff members who are working in the NICU Family Support project (at Baton Rouge Woman's Hospital). So you know those families are in loving hands and your baskets are going to get where they need to go! Liza will be there until Sunday at this point and then we will likely be sending other staff from elsewhere in the country who have had NICU Family Support experience.
One last word for tonight. Can I just say I love you guys? When this is over (and for most families, it will be over at some point) I will try to tell you how appreciated you are. But you have to know that in your hearts because our chapter in Louisiana may never really know which of you made baskets and sent them for families. But I know everyone of you cares and is sending prayer and warm thoughts.
I know you aren't doing it for our thanks. And that's exactly why I'm so thankful.
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Brenda Rante (Sep 7, 2005 3:02 am)
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Brenda Rante
- Sep 7, 2005 3:02 am
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Replying to:
Judi Gooding (Sep 7, 2005 1:06 am)
Yes, Please get the word to your friends...: I'm sorry that I haven't been on Share all day to say...
Re: Yes, Please get the word to your friends...
Judi,
Thanks so much for the update! I've put word out to some of my co-workers.....so hopefully we will get something going soon!!!
Tell Liza we are so proud of her and all the MOD staff for the endless compassion that you all extend to so many parents and babies!!! You guys are the BEST!!!!
Hugs,
Brenda
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Michele Reeves
- Sep 7, 2005 3:04 am
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Replying to:
Jacobs-Nana (Sep 3, 2005 9:25 pm)
My Heart goes out to all effected by Katrina.!!!!!!!!!!: Our thoughts and prayers are with each and every family effected...
Re: My Heart goes out to all effected by Katrina.!!!!!!!!!!
GREAT to see you, Melody!!!! Hugs!
Michele
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Karri
- Sep 7, 2005 3:31 am
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Judi,
Thank you for the update. Once again, MOD is doing great things, and moving mountains to help those in need!!
That's why we all love MOD!!
HUGS and prayers!
Karri
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Melissa M.
- Sep 7, 2005 12:52 pm
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Mom of 25 weekers, Now Age 5 & 1.2 (3 surviving quads) |
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Judi, Thanks for the update...we have been doing what we can in Texarkana. Busy - busy -Busy around here. I just want to take this opportunity to say: It is often times the hardworking, compassionate little people that keeps this country moving in a positive direction. It is the MOD workers who have spent tireless hours pulling together much needed aid for those Katrina left behind. Some of these workers include Judi and Nancy..... And smaller town MOD workers like Linda. It is the Red Cross volunteers who filter into shelters and cities where these people wait... It is the church or private citizen in the community who opens their hearts and their wallet....and lately, even their community center. It is the MOD family support workers, Like Liza...who leave at a moments notice because she is needed.... It is the workers for fantastic companies like Gymboree who gladly donate for this important cause. It is people like Brenda, Darcy, Donna, Karri, Melody, and countless others who simply want to do a little bit more...when they have already done so much. The less famous and less wealthy people of this country...the ones who live in small and large towns...the ones who live in Internet communities... .the ones who watch the news, feel their hearts hurting, and freely extend the best parts of themselves...the ones you see at the grocery store or washing their cars... these people have come together for the purpose of helping fellow Americans.... and they have given *so* much more than the aid Louisiana, Texas, Mississippi, and Alabama are being sent ... they have also given faith that tomorrow life will indeed go on...that healing can come from the love of strangers....that meaning can be placed on the seemingly simplest tasks...and that the human spirit is *so* resilient. So thank each of you for looking into your hearts...and being the wonderful people that you always have been! Melissa 
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Kamie
- Sep 7, 2005 7:28 pm
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Mommy to an amazing girl named Zoe |
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Getting The Word Out
I have sent a couple of packages and am getting the word out as best as I can. I also called the Atlanta chapter (my chapter) and asked what we are doing for the evacuees here. 
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Judi Gooding
- Sep 8, 2005 12:19 am
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You All Rock
Thank you, Melissa, for you wonderful words of encouragement to everyone -- including me!
Today we are spending some time taking stock of where things are and how we can help Hurricane victims, especially pregnant women and babies over the next few months and the next YEAR. So much will be needed...
Did you know that Baton Rouge has taken in 300,000 evacuees and expects 6,000 additional births over the next three months?
Of course, there are more babies in the NICUs there now, and that number will sadly grow due to so many premature births caused by stress, infection, lack of health care because of the disaster.
Our future and long term efforts are going to be focused on those NICU families, but also on provdiing prenatal care and education and services to try to prevent some of those premature births...
Keep doing what you are doing...and we'll keep getting those baskets out into the NICUs.
If you feel the need to send baskets to chapters other than Mississippi and Louisiana, you might want to make your basket geared to the new mom with a healthy baby that she has to take home to a shelter...rather than a NICU mom.
That's becsue in the cities in Texas and other areas taking the evacuees, we migth not have the NICU Fmaily Support project or the means to be sure the basket gets to a NICU Family. If your basket is for "any family" then it can be given at shelters and in the hospitals.
If you still want to baskets for NICU families, the Baton Rouge chapter (address in previous post) will be needing them for a long time to come.
Thank you for all you are doing and for all you are.
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Owen'sMommy (Sep 9, 2005 1:40 am)
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Brenda Rante
- Sep 8, 2005 1:34 am
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Beautifully Said!
I always believed that our Miracle Children bring more Miracles through the lives they touch.....look at all of us today........we bring
H O P E
to so many needy families. Bless you all for the big hearts you have!
Brenda & Benjamin (34 weeker born 12/24/99 with NEC)
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Jacobs-Nana
- Sep 8, 2005 4:11 am
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Proud Nana to Jacob Aaron "My Hero" |
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I have always heard that everyone knows everyone by ten people.... Today I am more convinced of that than ever before....
This morning I was having a conversation with a co-worker over coffee about the Katrina tragedy.. We were discussing what we had both heard broadcast on our local radio station.. This radio station has sent a staff member to LA to report back to our community.. His report today was.... He had heard that a TV station in the baton rouge LA area has made a request for 100 female volunteers to help feed & rock the babies, and play with the small children.... We chatted about how we wish we were closer, and how as days go by the sadness and despair continues to mount....Not only in the victims of Katrina's path...But by all of us that are shocked, and saddened by the effects of the storm and the devistation it left behind.. We spoke of the basket and gift box drive the MOD has currently underway. But even participating in that I still felt there has to be something else I can do.. She told me a friend of hers was now working in LA gave me her number and said I should give her a call. That she would know if there was something else I could do..
I placed the call and found this woman to be a disaster relief coordinator in baton rouge working directly in Womans Hospital...I had a lengthy conversation with her today...She shared with me the emotion surrounding their hospital receiving these babies....How they were transported in....And the overwhelming emotion and now attachment the staff has for these babies.. We spoke of how many Preemies, Term Babies and Mothers they have admitted over the past week...The numbers was staggering.. I think about the amount of babies that was in the NICU when Jacob was there in our local hospital..There was 10-12 in each module, and that left not much room... So I can not imagine what their NICU rooms must be like for them there..Or what the staff must be going through..Not counting what the parents are going through....
And as I listened to her I could hear the compassion in this womans voice for all the women and babies there... She said she was honored to be apart of their care and to have them there.A very rewarding experience...She spoke of what a heartbreaking event this has been for these people... And that she was saddened for them and all they are enduring emotionally.... She said these women were not only tramatized by the hurricane, and the initial separation from their babies for a time... Because so many was transported without the parents.. But her heart breaks for them because not only with all of this..Many of these women have nothing...ANYTHING!!...
I explained to her I was a member of the share community with the MOD and have sent a couple gifts for the Mother's down through them and planned to send more... She said she was aware of the baskets, boxes..and they will be greatly appreciated by the Mothers.. She said the hospital was providing the necessary things that hospitals provide to a patient....But these would be so welcomed and such an awesome gift for the Mother's because it not only let these mothers know they are cared about by other mothers that have personally been through the NICU experience, but it will give them a sense of having things that belong to just them.. And not hospital items.. She said everything big or small sends a message of hope for them.. She also said they are in great need of preemie clothes, and blankets....
This woman as busy as she has to be was so calm, and caring I was so very impressed....You think about a hospital that has increased so drastically in patients, and a community nearly doubling in size that there would be some tension, or anxiety.. But she had NONE in her voice... She was so positive and upbeat.. She said they are working very hard continuing to create a very loving calm environment for all there..
I COMMEND THEM WITH ALL MY HEART!!!!!
Nancy I know you put a message about your Mother's blankets a few back and said anyone in need shoud put in a request.. Would I need to pass this information along to this coordinator...Or can I pass her information (her name and number) to you if this blanket project can help them out?.....
After speaking to her I printed the message that Judi put on earlier about more baskets needed, and took it to each person in my office... I went on and on about this cause and explained that even though they may have donated to the Red Cross they knew all our family endured with Jacob's NICU stay.. And try to imagine adding this tragedy to all that comes with the NICU... I was able to collect a fair amount of money today to be used for Baskets/Gift Bags..I do not know if I touched them or if they contributed to this to get me to be quiet and leave their office.. But either way it worked... Tomorrow I will be shopping and hopefully be able to send 15 more baskets/gift bags..I am sending these to the LA MOD location listed here...Since I am told that is where the majority of the babies have been sent.. I will continue to talk, and hopefully raise more funds to send to other locations that too are in need...
For those of you that know me..You know I have long winded posts...Well I do not just go on in posts..I actually have a T-Shirt I received as a gift a very long time ago that says "I am talking and I can't shut up"... HOPEFULLY THAT GIFT OF GAB WILL PROVE PRODUCTIVE IN THIS SITUATION!!!!!
Tabatha and I are shopping tomorrow and I will let you know what we were able to include in this batch.. AND HOW MANY.
God Bless each of you!!!!
Melody
PS: I ask her if there was any restaraunts located in or near the hospital in baton rouge she said there is a Subway very near the hospital.. Just in case anyone has thought of including food certificates in their baskets but did not know what restaraunts was available..
[Last Editor: Jacobs-Nana, Sep 7, 2005 9:24 pm. Total Edits: 1]
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Jessica Bracy
- Sep 8, 2005 5:27 am
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Proud Mommy to Kobe (28 weeks), Kaleb (22 weeks - our angel in Heaven) and Kendra's Maja |
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You are all amazing women! I am so proud to be associated with you all. More boxes are on the way and I sent an e-mail to everyone I could think of...it feels so good to do something, thank you for the opportunity!
Hugs to you all-
Jessica
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bookworm2
- Sep 8, 2005 12:28 pm
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good idea?
I've never posted here before, so I hope this message is welcome! My son was born on 9/1/04 at 34 weeks, so I've lurked here often for information and stories.
Would it be a bad idea to pack the NICU care packages into inexpensive, small diaper bags? I've just called one of our local dollar stores and they do sell them. Would this make it easier for these new mommies and daddies to have a new diaper bag to carry their things in, rather than a box? Or is this a bad idea?
Thank you!
Dianne
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Melissa M.
- Sep 8, 2005 1:09 pm
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Mom of 25 weekers, Now Age 5 & 1.2 (3 surviving quads) |
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Melody! You are awesome! You have been dear to my heart since your very first post....and your still are....what a treasure you are to SHARE. Jessica and Kamie! Good job. I'll bet your gifts will bring huge smiles to the faces of these mothers. Dianne....I think as long as the bags are small....that should be fine....they will have to carry them on their person...but I brought an overnight bag many times with me to the hospital on my way to or from overnight stays in town. Ask Judi! Judi knows everything! (Nancy knows a lot too  ) Melissa
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bookworm2
- Sep 8, 2005 1:44 pm
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Thanks, Melissa. Judi? Nancy? Any opinions or advice? I know the packages must be very small, due to lack of space, but I thought it might help to have something convenient to carry these things in - that a small diaper bag might be easier to carry around than a box - ??? And then the diaper bag also gives them something useful for beyond their hospital stay time - a tiny bit of something to help start over with. Wise? Not wise? I plan to start putting some packages together today, so they can go out tomorrow morning, and I will - of course - send whatever is needed, in whatever form. Dianne
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Kamie
- Sep 8, 2005 1:45 pm
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I sent out emails to everyone I know.
The results? My mother in law sent my email to her entire school and church. Another friend sent this email out to their entire church too. I know a couple of sororities are making care packages as a community service projects.
So expect more carepackages!
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mschreck
- Sep 8, 2005 3:03 pm
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Help is on the way!
Dianne, I think the diaper bag idea is great! I actually thought of doing that, too, but like you, was unsure if it would be appropriate. You have made a great point - not only will the bags come in handy now, but they'll be useful later on, too. My packages went in the mail today. I am planning to continue to spread the word. Maybe we should all follow Melody's example and go on our own Cubicle Crusades! Take care, everyone, and keep up the wonderful work! Melanie
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Kamie
- Sep 8, 2005 3:25 pm
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LogansMom28w
- Sep 8, 2005 4:38 pm
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Volunteering is hedonistic - read on.....
Wow. Miss 2 days, miss a lot.
Great information propogated like wildfire! Love it!
By uniting with a common goal it also brings us (as a SHARE community but also as a nation) together and moving forward. One of the greatest causes of depression is a sense of hopelessness; that all is out of our control and we can do nothing to change it.
Sometimes, being a volunteer and helping out another person is just as much about *us* as it is *them*. By knowing that we can provide a few simple gestures for another person gives us hope that we can change things.
We can't control mother nature. We can't control broken levees, but we can control how we react to them.
We can take control of how we feel about the situation. When we have a goal it gives us purpose to continue making changes. No longer do we feel helpless, hopeless and out of control. So I recommend this as much for YOU as for the NICU family to take on just ONE basket. See how you feel when it's done. A little ray of sunshine starts to poke out behind the storm clouds. A little bit of hope that lives will return to normal shines through. Finally, a positive association can be found amid the wreck.
OK, so it may be a bit of a selfish twist on helping others. Humans are, by nature, programmed to take care of themselves, and keep themselves happy. But in this case... caring for others helps you take care of your emotional needs. It's a win-win situation. These parents so deperately need a sense of normalcy and a feeling of being taken care of during great need and we so desperately want to NOT feel powerless during a time of national disaster.
So, take this twist.... go help others. You'll be glad you did.
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Nancy White
- Sep 8, 2005 5:17 pm
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Has anyone a picture of their NICU package?
Great rant, Darcy! I love it!
I'm thinking it might help jumpstart us to see some of the real good!
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Melissa M.
- Sep 8, 2005 5:31 pm
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Yay Darcy....you were a cheerleader in school, weren't you! Hugs for bringing this into great focus. Melissa 
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Judi Gooding
- Sep 9, 2005 12:07 am
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Some Answers and Requests
These days I'm finding it hard to say "thank you" without saying "could you do one more more thing?" So consider yourself warned! First, go right to our home page -- right now! -- and see some of the things March of Dimes is doing. http://www.marchofdimes.com/ You on share know we've been busy helping moms and babies in the affected areas -- but we REALLY need the rest of the world to know too. We are starting a $5 million campaign just to help these "hurricane families" right now and over the next year and even longer -- as long as they are in "temporary" shelter and homes and as long as they need us! So, tell your friends and family and coworkers that if they want to give to help NICU babies and families, to help pregnant women get care, to help new moms and dads who -- thank God -- have healthy babies in the midst of this mess...they can go right to our home page and give the March of Dimes Hurricane Assistance Fund. I you all get some major credit for this whole thing...becasue you are the ones who said "what can we do" "how can March of Dimes help" THAT's what got the wheels rolling to have a way to give -- either to this new national fund where the money will go to the area of greatest need at a given time -- or directly to the chapter of your choice. And now a word about the baskets... The need for special baskets for NICU families in Baton Rouge is going to continue for a while. Unfortunately we know that even more premature babies will be born because of this disaster. So if you want to prepare baskets for NICU Families, you can keep doing that...honestly, if we start having more baskets at that chapter than we can distribute I'll let you know. But for now, keep them coming. I want to reiterate a suggestion I made earlier: the NICU family baskets are so special coming FROM and family who understands the NICU -- so I'm still thinking its better to keep those baskets being made by you and your close friends (whom you guide) and your local preemie support groups and so on. But, of course, word's out about the baskets and many babies are being born healthy and being discharged from the hospital to shelters with their families who have nothing. So, in a bit of a careful way, I'd like to "roll out" your baskets in this bigger way -- baskets useful for all families, that could be put together by anyone with a list? These baskets would go to a number of sites (Mississippi, Texas, and other places where large numbers of people have been evacuated) and the NICU baskets would be concentrated on Baton Rouge for now. I have few reservations about it getting "too big" -- we are not a relief agency and we don't have much means to open and sort and check items. And once we publicize it to the "public" -- that is, beyond your friends and family and coworkers, then it gets pretty hard to be sure we don't get inundated with items that are not appropriate or thoughtful. Can you help me with this? Give me your thoughts? And if you think we should try to get the word out more about the baskets, would someone like to put together a list of items to include? Should we be working harder to promote giving at the website so we can buy supplies to give to families rather than involving the "public" in baskets? And, Dianne, I think the diaper bag is an EXCELLENT idea. It's very thoughtful and I realize we can't do it for too many baskets, as it far exceeds the $13 version (incredible!). Any other ideas like that? And last question, for the "administrators" among you -- is there any EASY way for people to share with me or as a post or something when they've sent a basket and where they sent it? I know this is crazy, but it would help our organization to know. After a couple of weeks, I can ask the chapters to keep track on the receiving end, but for right now, that is very hard for them. Any ideas for this would be very welcome. Nancy? In other news...Liza's in New Orleans -- she spent last evening in the NICU contacting families (and there are many) whose baby is in the NICU in Baton Rouge, but the family was evacuated to another city. It just breaks your heart. Watch for her Blogs which she's going to start tonight. I'm going to say good night -- and visit my family for a little while. 
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Melissa M.
- Sep 9, 2005 1:06 am
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Mom of 25 weekers, Now Age 5 & 1.2 (3 surviving quads) |
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Judi,
I would like to offer a suggestion. A while back I began a NICU welcome/grief basket project. (which now also includes bed rest) currently, I have been given a grant to use locally on this project. However, I have also distributed these baskets to Louisiana just a month ago.
This project has 2 components....educational and family support. Brochures and toiletries etc. are included in each box....geared specifically toward the category of box it is....
Because I wrote a grant proposal for these baskets...I have an entire budget figured out...including the cost per type of basket.
Other SHARE members have started doing these kinds of baskets too. In fact, SHARE members helped me decided what to put in these baskets.
It is my hope, that one day.....we will make this a national project. Right now...we are doing this one city at a time. Creating pilot projects...etc.
That being said....these baskets really can now temporarily fall under relief. So, under this sites get involved heading...you can find a list of items included in the past....AND if you like...I can send you a copy of the budget I worked on....
Maybe this will help....maybe not...just let me know.
Melissa
[Last Editor: Melissa M., Sep 8, 2005 6:09 pm. Total Edits: 2]
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Owen'sMommy
- Sep 9, 2005 1:40 am
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March of Dimes Advocate Since 2004 |
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Replying to:
Judi Gooding (Sep 8, 2005 12:19 am)
You All Rock: Thank you, Melissa, for you wonderful words of encouragement to everyone -- including me! Today we are...
More NICU babies due to Katrina
Judy - Thanks for reminding us that NICUs will be affected by Katrina for quite some time. Certainly, the incredible stress, the lack of sanitary conditions, and eating little to nothing will take its toll on some pregnant women and their babies. Also, I live in upstate NY.... seemingly a long way from hurricane country but we do sometimes experience the lingering remnants of Florida hurricanes in the form of strong winds, heavy rain. Last year when Florida was hit by 4 hurricanes, there was an increase in premature births here and some health care providers believe it was due to the radical shift in barometric pressure. A local news station covered this phenomenon. So... I guess my point is that we need to keep sending those packages for the current and future NICU babies affected by Katrina!
Lori
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LogansMom28w
- Sep 9, 2005 3:03 am
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My 3 boybarians are 4, 5 and 7. |
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Judi,
Great thoughts there. Really good things to think about.
I didn't take pictures (surprising for me, I take photos of EVERYTHING!)... but in my blog is a list of everything I included. The most expensive thing in the basket is the camera and it is only $3.77 (Fujifilm and Target). However, I think it is one of the most important things in there - though I am a scrapbook fanatic and treasure every photo I have.
I really wish I could have included a journal and pen. I did put in a stationary set, but the journals are expensive in masse. I know how theraputic writing can be.
My hope was to keep the baskets under $15/each so I could afford to send a few. Another option is to send fewer baskets but include more in them. It was a heartwrenching decision... I ultimately went for quantity over quality, hoping to provide at least a little something for more people. If this starts to get "big" I would start asking for more inclusive baskets and expect fewer from each household. (ie: please send 2 $20 baskets rather than 3 $13 baskets)
Thoughts on that, Judi?
Melissa has a great list of things she includes in her baskets and I referred to it when making my own. I also included a letter of support and condolences as well as directions on how to find SHARE when they eventually get internet access. I pray they can find a whole crowd of cheerleaders here at SHARE.
Judi, more can be done. We can get the word out. I understand there isn't the staff to handle this. Volunteers are falling over themselves wanting to help. If the word gets out that we need manpower in MS or TX to distribute baskets, people will come. I understand it is harder to get people to help in LA. If they get to Baton Rouge to volunteer are there hotels available? Will they be able to get groceries and such? If so, people will come.
I hope we can reach a lot of families. I wish we could reach them all... until then, one basket at a time... I'll keep sending a couple each month until you tell us to stop and I'll keep rallying my forces.
-D
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Nancy White
- Sep 9, 2005 3:34 am
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Stepping Up
Hey you beautiful people, I think it is time to open a topic JUST ABOUT the baskets. Or maybe two
1. To talk about what needs to be in the baskets, ideas, creative approaches, expanding to non nicu families ect.
2. To track - post only in this one if you have made and sent a basket so we can track.
I hope I'm making sense. It's late! Grin. I'm going to take the risk and go open them. Then you brilliant ones will get it rocking and rolling!
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Jacobs-Nana
- Sep 9, 2005 7:17 am
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Proud Nana to Jacob Aaron "My Hero" |
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Much fun and very rewarding what a wondeful project.....We have shopped and have chosen a nylon bag (it looks like a cross between a diaper bag and a tote bag)..We chose black thinking it would be less likely to show dirt and wear from being carried around as bags are..
We did 1/2 of the bags tonight for preemie boys and parents and the other 1/2 for preemie girls and their parents...
Each bag is filled with the following:
1 Full size Bottle Shampoo
1 Full Size Bottle Conditioner
1 Full Size Womens Deoderant
1 Full Size Mens Deoderant
1 Full Size Shaving Gel
2 Mens Disposable Razors
2 Womens Disposable Razors
1 Full Size Bar Bath Soap
Pony Tail Holders
1 Hair Brush
1 Comb
2 Toothbrushes (1 Pink/1Blue)
1 Full Size Toothpaste
1 Full Size Package Femine Pads
Hand Sanitizer
1 Journal
1 Ink Pen
1 Disposable Camera
1 Sm Pk Gum
1 Sm Pk Candy
1 New Preemie Outfit with socks and hat...Pink for girls bags and blue for boys bags...
1 New Baby Wash Cloth
1 Blanket
1 New Small Stuffed Teddy bear with angel wings
Along with a small homemade book we created the pages on our computer folded them in book form, hole punched and bound with satin ribbon...each is just a few short pages..
Page 1: Congrats on the birth of their baby and where the bag is being sent from
Page 2: Inspirational Messages
Page 3: A little bit about Jacob to let them know we have traveled the NICU road...
Page 3: Info on MOD and the web address to share
Page 4: A Poem
Page 5: Is just a lined page and has Name/Address/Phone repeated with blanks lines down the page so they will have an extra space if needed to keep important phone numbers they aquire along their journey...
For those at the MOD to be able to distinguish Boys Bags from Girls Bags upon receipt...We have tied Pink Curling Ribbon on the Girl's bags and Blue on the Boys on the strap.....
The total cost of each including the cost of the bag was $25.48..We put together 10 tonight and they are ready to mail.. They will be mailed UPS to the Baton Rouge LA address..We will be shipping 8 to 10 more over the next couple days or by the first of next week at latest....If the next batch should go to another location besides Baton Rouge please let me know...
Nancy, Judi, or Staff if there is a problem with anything listed here please let me know..So we can make changes for the next ones...And Nancy you ask about pictures...Here is a couple of the ones that are ready to send..The first one shows the contents that is in each bag *This picture is of a girls bag.*..and the other picture is what the bag itself looks like over Tabatha's shoulder..To give you a better idea of the bag we selected..I hope this is what you had in mind....
God Bless
Melody
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Owen'sMommy (Sep 9, 2005 2:43 pm)
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Erin Malloy
- Sep 9, 2005 2:37 pm
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Gathering things to send
Just wanted to let you know that I've emailed a bunch of people and will be gathering stuff to send, hopefully by the middle of next week. I wanted to give everyone enough time to get things together. I know my message has been forwared onto at least one church group and possibly another! Can't wait to get these in the mail! Erin
mom to Aidan James, 12/29/04, 30 weeker due to Pre-E

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Owen'sMommy
- Sep 9, 2005 2:43 pm
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March of Dimes Advocate Since 2004 |
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Replying to:
Jacobs-Nana (Sep 9, 2005 7:17 am)
Much fun and very rewarding what a wondeful project.....We have shopped and have chosen a nylon bag (it looks like...
Re: Hurricane Katrina Prayers and Action
Melody! Holy Toledo!!! What an incredible carepackage!! You put such thought into these and it will be apparent to the PoPs who get them. I'm tempted to say that my little packages seem so measly but .... I am a strong believer that every little thing helps. But YOUR care package.... oh my!! Nice work!!
Lori
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