Giving Back

Perhaps the cause is too local? Maybe because it is one hospital, one location that people feel less inclined to help? Maybe... now is a tough time a year to ask for donations.

I would say... keep going. Keep asking. I have my own agenda here when I say this... and I don't even apologize for pushing the March of Dimes anymore! Maybe if you named a charity that was more familiar, people would feel better about giving to it.

For example, the March of Dimes has an online fundraising tool. This will be made available to you in the coming months before Walk America. All you have to do is tell your story and make the website available. People can go online in their own time, and make a donation without feeling pressured. The online site allows you to donate with a check, credit card or indicate that you are sending it via snail mail to the person. It is a hands-off way of making your NICU stay worthwhile.

I understand the feeling of indebtedness! My son's life was spared by two drugs: Surfactant and Nitric Oxide. Without these, his story would have a very different ending. Right now he is a happy, bubbly, fair-haired little boy. He brings our family such joy. How do you say thank-you for the life of a child?

In order to ensure the next generation also receives this helping hand, I feel like I must continue to "pay it forward". My son's life has been spared and I will work to spare the life of another.

I tell my story, express my appreciation for my son Logan and the money seems to appear. It is the emotion, the fear, the grief, the joy, the LIFE that makes his story so touching. Explaining that if everyone gave a DOLLAR - just one dollar - we could make a huge difference.

In 1938, the March of Dimes asked only for $.10. Look what they did with everyone's dimes. I pray they can do for prematurity what they did Polio.

Good luck in your fundraising. Don't give up on this cause. Try again after Christmas, write up how you want to tell your story, and share it with anyone who will listen. It is when you appeal to their emotions, rather than their bank account, that you raise money a little bit at a time.

Warm wishes,
Darcy

I would add...if at first you don't succeed, try, try again!!!

Also, if you educate them, the money will follow!! (I think a wise, wise person once said that!)

Hang in there!!
Hugs!
Michele

kj, consider teaming up with other local groups who make/do things. For example, there are often groups of knitters and quilters who make blankets and hats. Scout troops often lend a hand. They bring materials with them, so together, everyone can rally around the NICU without any one person having to stretch their resources too far. They often already have contacts with crafts stores etc. Tap into that good energy!

For blankets, check out http://www.projectlinus.org