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twins in 12 days

twinsmomma96 - 12:02am Aug 13, 2006 EST
twins born 12 days apart

My name is Heather Nesbitt, ten years ago at the age of twenty-five, I found out at 9 1/2 weeks that I was carrying twins with an expected due date of September 4, 1996. Well, everything was going fine, they were growing and maturirng normally, when after attending a doctor's appointment, about 28 weeks, my membranes ruptured(June 17, 1996), I arrived at the hospital in preterm labor, my ob immediately admitted me to the hospital, while placing me on bed rest and trying to stop my labor with magnisum sulfate and injections to mature their lungs, while exactly five days after that first admission to the hospital, at 29 weeks, I gave birth to my first born son, Dylan Scott, weighing only 2lbs,10 1/2ozs., after his birth the doctors' decided it was better to allow his twin to have better chance of survival if he remained in utero awhile longer, they originally were hoping for a baby born at term, but at 31 weeks, my second twin son, Chase David, was born weighing in at 3lbs.,7ozs., exactly 12 days after his brother.
 Dylan remained in the NICU for two months, coming home at on August 19, 1996, weighing in at 6lbs,14ozs. While Chase come home from the hospital exactly two weeks after he was born weighing in at 4lbs,5ozs. It's been a long 10 years but after those first years of obstacles, they are happy and healthy 4th graders.



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NikaMomOfTwins - Aug 15, 2006 9:16 pm (#6 Total: 16)  

My beautiful babes Sasha & Anestasia  

WOW ..

I didn't even know that that was possible! Having twins with 2 different birthdays. Im sure thats a hard one for people to comprehend. Twins alone is a hard thing for most people to comprehend .. why .. I dont know! I think that is such a wonderful thing , I wonder what the situation was that allowed them to do that for your babes. Im thinking they must not have been in the same sack right? If they were thats even more amazing. I wonder now if that could have been done for my girls! I am so entreged!

Bless you and your loved ones!

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  • twinsmomma96 (Aug 16, 2006 3:17 am)


  • twinsmomma96 - Aug 16, 2006 3:17 am (#7 Total: 16)  

    twins born 12 days apart  

    Replying to: NikaMomOfTwins (Aug 15, 2006 9:16 pm)
    WOW ..: I didn't even know that that was possible! Having twins with 2 different birthdays. Im sure...

    Re: WOW ..

    My twins shared the same outer sac but had seperate ambiotic sacs thats why the doctors were able to deliver them that far apart. Well the twelve days was very agonzing and very long, I just wanted to go home. My twins were the only ones in my area born on different days. So to me they're very special, although I do celebrate their birthdays together!

    Thanks!

    heather

    twinsmom - Aug 16, 2006 5:22 am (#8 Total: 16)  

    Horse Lover Kathryn and Book lover Oliver  

    twins born on different days

    This is amazing to me! I had no idea this was possible. I question why this was not done for my twins. My son's membrane ruptured at 30 weeks, he was delivered after only one steroid shot because he was crowning. They actually had to then induce me in order to deliver my daughter. She of course was not ready and struggled with many things her first year while my son was mainly feed and grow. Happily they are both now happy healthy 5 yr olds ready to start kindergarten in a month. I just wonder if another couple of weeks wouldn't have made Kathryn's first years so much easier. I hate to think she suffered needlessly. Boy, I guess I'm going to have to trust that everyone did their best otherwise I'll go crazy. I just hear stuff like this and think if only I had known to question the doctors. Do you think I'll ever get over the guilt about not being able to carry them full term? I still struggle with it after 5 years. Anybody else have these feelings?
    Kathy

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  • AmyBeth® - Aug 16, 2006 9:20 pm (#9 Total: 16)  

     

    Before "Share"

    I never realized this was at all possible. Then reading Kara's story (and yes I read it like 10 times over to make sure I was reading it right) and then this story, it is amazing to me what technology can do.

    Thanks for sharing your story and welcome to Share.

    Amy

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  • twinsmomma96 (Aug 16, 2006 10:25 pm)


  • twinsmomma96 - Aug 16, 2006 10:20 pm (#10 Total: 16)  

    twins born 12 days apart  

    Replying to: twinsmom (Aug 16, 2006 5:22 am)
    twins born on different days: This is amazing to me! I had no idea this was possible. I question why...

    Re: twins born on different days

    I agree with you I carried alot of guilt that my twins weren't carried to term either, but now that I looked back at the last ten years, I'm glad that the doctors delivered them the way they did even though I had never realized that this was possible, My older twin had alot of problems, he had to have therapy to teach him to roll over, sit, and stand. One thing that I've noticed in the last ten years is that I'm very lucky because he was a very strong little boy and a lttle fighter, he is now a very talented little artist,and likes to play video. He has decided when he grows up to design video games, and his twin brother has a talent to figure out how things work and operate.
    So hang in there, eventually the feelings of guilt will go away and you'll be surpised how far they've come even if they started out to early, and had to catch up to their peers, hope that makes you feel better and realize that it wasn't your fault. Don't worry, took me ten years to finally realize that it wawsn't my fault.
    Heather

    twinsmomma96 - Aug 16, 2006 10:25 pm (#11 Total: 16)  

    twins born 12 days apart  

    Replying to: AmyBeth® (Aug 16, 2006 9:20 pm)
    Before "Share": I never realized this was at all possible. Then reading Kara's story (and yes I read it...

    Re: Before "Share"

    Yes, believe it or not! It is more common then most people realize, I even have parents with children in the twins' classes that don't really believe me either, but once I explain it to them they realize that its possible and they think that its the neatest thing they ever heard of.
    Heather

    Whosures - Aug 17, 2006 6:28 pm (#12 Total: 16)  

     

    Neat story

    I had heard of this happening but I still think it's cool. Funny that you have another one the same age.
    I always joke that had I gotten pregnant right after Riley was born, chances are she could have had a sibling about 6 months younger than her. Yes, I have a sick sense of humor.

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  • twinsmomma96 (Aug 17, 2006 11:49 pm)


  • twinsmomma96 - Aug 17, 2006 11:49 pm (#13 Total: 16)  

    twins born 12 days apart  

    Replying to: Whosures (Aug 17, 2006 6:28 pm)
    Neat story: I had heard of this happening but I still think it's cool. Funny that you have another...

    Re: Neat story

    YEAH! sometimes its a good thing, but usually in school it makes it hard to juggle between their classrooms during their conferences and sometimes between other activies as well, so most people think that they're triplets, but actually they're not !
    the younger one is taller than the twins, so people with he's older when he's actually younger. it wasn't planned for them to be that close, my youngest son was an oops!,but i 'm kind of glad that they were close sometimes because they all weaned of bottles at the same time and were pottytrained at the same time. so that turned out to be a good thing.
    thanks for your interest
    heather

    Karri - Aug 18, 2006 11:21 am (#14 Total: 16)  

    Mom to 4 amazing kiddos!  

    Thank you for sharing your incredible story. It's so encouraging to hear, that despite a difficult start, Chase, and Dylan are doing well today.

    You and your boys are an inspiration to those of us with younger preemies. My twin girls are 5 years old, and it's not often that I hear of success such as yours. Thank you for sharing your story.

    Welcome to Share,
    Karri

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  • twinsmomma96 (Aug 18, 2006 10:42 pm)


  • twinsmomma96 - Aug 18, 2006 10:42 pm (#15 Total: 16)  

    twins born 12 days apart  

    Replying to: Karri (Aug 18, 2006 11:21 am)
    Thank you for sharing your incredible story. It's so encouraging to hear, that despite a difficult start, Chase, and Dylan...

    Re: twins in 12 days

    thank you, and don't worry those first five years maybe rocky but in the end it'll seem like a far away time, Dylan and Chase excel in different ways too, so that is a good thing too. i'm also the mother of four, a twelve year old daughter Arianna(full term), Dylan(a 29wker) & Chase(a 31wker), and Cameron(36wker)9 years.
    here's to you and your family!
    heather

    2 here 2 in Heaven - Aug 20, 2006 6:46 pm (#16 Total: 16)  

    Surviving 26 week triplet...2 angels, & a 36 week singleton.  

    Triplets in 2 days

    Welcome to Share! It is fun to hear about another mother of multiples who had her babies on different days!

    My son Kai (25 weeker) was born on a Thursday and the doctors hoped the other two babies would stay put for another month or two. But they decided to join their brother, and just two days later Boston and London were born.

    -Shonda



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