6 WEEKS POSTPARTUM

Akeelah's Mommy
Dec 04, 2009 05:34pm (EST)

My thoughts are with you. I think everyone on Share battles with some form of guilt. We were all so robbed of what should have been.

I hope your appointment goes well. I know it's so difficult to go back to some of the same places under such different circumstances than you imagined. I'll keep you in my thoughts.

Lauren

AandO
Dec 04, 2009 05:49pm (EST)

I am so sorry you still have no answers. I do think, though, that sometimes, there is just no rhyme or reason for things that happen.

I do hope that Bode continues to do well and that your councelor continues to help you.

I'm thinking of you.

Tommie

TrishloveTristan
Dec 04, 2009 09:21pm (EST)

Andrea,
I'm sorry you don't have any answers, When I was pregnant I did the amio because my lab-work came back with something with chromosone 18 but it turned out it was a false positive. The only answer I got for losing Tristan was that it was a cord accident, the placenta and cord were tested and the pathologist said that everything was okay with that, it sucks not having answers.
Good luck with your six week postpartum appointment.
Trish

Angel Love
Dec 05, 2009 03:05am (EST)

I've often wondered if we'd done things differently if things would be different for us, but after the years go by, it's come to the point that it's not healthy for me or for my daughter to ask those questions anymore. I hope that as you speek with your dr. that he/she can offer more answers for you and I'm very proud to know that you're dealing with things with a counselor as well. Keep us posted, and know that we're here.

Tracy

ForMiiAng3L
Dec 07, 2009 04:47am (EST)

Andrea,
       I feel your pain...Your guilt!! When I was pregnant my tests came back high for down syndrome...So, they asked me did I want to do the amino...After hearing the risks...I said no...The ultrasound didn't show anything wrong..So, I was happy...But, looking back now...I wonder if I would have said yes...Would they have been able to detect anything and my baby would still be here...If I have learned anything...It's what ifs can't and won't change what is...You know, God doesn't make any mistakes!! We gotta take this day by day...Step by step!! I wish you the best on your post appt...Mines is Dec 15...And, I wish you the best with concieving again...My fiance wants to try again quickly to...But, what bothers me...Is the thought and everyone saying..If you have a premature birth then you are more likely to have another one...It scares me..But, I know...I got to keep praying and gotta keep believing..God doesn't make any mistakes..Nor does he give you more than you can handle...Best wishes~

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