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KHolley
Feb 10, 2010 06:12pm (EST)

I am so sorry that your friend said that. It is so hard to find others that "get it". Just remember that you are always welcome here and we are always here for you.

Katie

LibbyB
Feb 10, 2010 06:53pm (EST)

It's hard to have all these feelings that we're not used to having. It's hard to be angry during a time that we thought was going to be joyous. My thoughts are with you as you approach your due date...it's a though day.

Libby

chantelle (baby ashleys mummy)
Feb 11, 2010 12:44am (EST)

Know my thoughts are with you and your lil Leevon as his due date approachs,i know how heartbreakingly hard the weeks and days leading upto the date that should have been so happy for us are....im sorry your friend said that,ive heard my fair share of comments that are supposed to be comforting but are hurtful instead...Others who havent walked in our shoes are just never going to get the pain we are feeling,the way all we want is our angels to be back in our empty arms...no matter how much time goes by or no matter how many other children we have there will forever be a big empty space where they should be..we are missing out on so much and it just isnt fair...it annoys me too that others have to ask me whats up or why im crying when really the answer should be so obvious!...thinking of you...chantelle...and thankyou for sharing the beautiful picture of your angel...he is so cute xx

kyla'smom
Feb 12, 2010 08:39am (EST)

am so sorry for the loss of your little leevon. i understand the pain and hurt of the "you can have another baby" comment. its knife that says my kyla or your leevon somehow didnt count as a full person that cannot be replaced. but we know that they were unique and special individuals that we will, and want others to, remember. i try to smile at those who say that dreaded line (or similarly hurtful things) with softness knowing that they don't mean harm and tell them that "I can never have another Kyla" my thoughts are with you Abra

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