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my story of painpaulie19 - 11:12pm Aug 22, 2011 ESTHi I'm Paulette its been a year since my miscarriage. Its been hard the last year and my partner and I are having trouble communicating since. I cry frequently because I can't get over the fact that I no longer have junior with me and its really hard for me to let go
TrinitysMommy
- Aug 23, 2011 11:03 pm
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Jadon my 34 weeker, My Angel Trinity 25weeks, miscarriage 6 weeks 12/27/11, Jaxson 32 weeker |
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Welcome to share. Im sorry for your loss. Men and women grieve so diffrently it make the journey so much harder. I agree with Laura have you tried counseling. Many churches will offer it for free, help open the communication up again. SHARE has been my rock since losing my daughter 5 years ago. I have found so much here on SHARE. I hope you find as much Love, comfort, and support!!!
Lots of love,
Samantha
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Dgraces Mom
- Aug 23, 2011 11:55 pm
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^i^D'Lon Grace^i^ ~ Forever 3 ~ Missing you every second of every day! (I HATE PH!) |
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Hello and welcome to Share. I am so sorry for you loss. I agree with Samantha, men and women grieve so very differently. While there isnt anything I cant talk about with my husband regarding the loss of our daughter, but depth in which I speak about it is nothing like I have shared here. Share is where I learned preemie 101 after the birth of my 23 weeker in 2005 and Share is where I have been allowed to grieve her on the highest level. I have never have to apologize or stifle how I feel here.
I hope you and your partner are able to find a way to kinda figure out what eachother need and dont need during this journey. The loss of a child is such a life altering event.
Hang in there!
Yolonda
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lvazquez
- Aug 27, 2011 2:52 pm
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Mom to Donovyn (32 weeker), Tristyn (34 weeker), and Naethyn (30 weeker born sleeping) |
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Welcome to Share. I am so sorry for your loss. It definitely took a long time for my husband and I to have the conversations that I wished we could have had right after losing our son at 30 weeks. There were two other little ones to take care of which left us hardly any free time to grieve together as parents. I did see a therapist/counselor for four sessions just to make sure that my feelings/concerns for myself and family were "normal." She assured me they were and I have learned that we all grieve differently. When I couldn't get the words of comfort and support here at home, I went to Share. It's been wonderful and it's taken time. Communication is everything and I hope that you and hubby can get that opportunity to connect agai with each other and talk about your loss.
Thinking of you,
Lindsay
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