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my story of pain

paulie19 - 11:12pm Aug 22, 2011 EST

Hi I'm Paulette its been a year since my miscarriage. Its been hard the last year and my partner and I are having trouble communicating since. I cry frequently because I can't get over the fact that I no longer have junior with me and its really hard for me to let go



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lvazquez - Aug 27, 2011 2:52 pm (#5 Total: 5)  

Mom to Donovyn (32 weeker), Tristyn (34 weeker), and Naethyn (30 weeker born sleeping)  

Welcome to Share. I am so sorry for your loss. It definitely took a long time for my husband and I to have the conversations that I wished we could have had right after losing our son at 30 weeks. There were two other little ones to take care of which left us hardly any free time to grieve together as parents. I did see a therapist/counselor for four sessions just to make sure that my feelings/concerns for myself and family were "normal." She assured me they were and I have learned that we all grieve differently. When I couldn't get the words of comfort and support here at home, I went to Share. It's been wonderful and it's taken time. Communication is everything and I hope that you and hubby can get that opportunity to connect agai with each other and talk about your loss.

Thinking of you,

Lindsay



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