My Lil Angel's Cade and Caden
Cade&Caden - 08:59pm Mar 5, 2012 ESTOn December 21,2011 I got the worst news of my life the couldn't find a heartbeat for either of my identical twin boys. I was so confused I didn't understand how this could especially so late in my pregnancy I was 33 weeks and I felt like stuff like this couldn't happen to me I did everything right well at least I thought I did. Why me why my babies? I wasn't getting answers from no one and I was told to head straight to the hospital to deliver my little Angel's I couldn't believe I still had to go through with all the pains of labor and delivery and still not have them as an end result. I hoped and I prayed that everything would be alright that the ultrasound machine was just broke. But on December 22,2011 I gave birth to two beautiful little Angel's Cade (baby A) was 5lbs and Caden (baby
was 5lbs 15oz it was the best but also the worst day of my life. I just wanted to share my story and speak to anyone out there that has been through something similar.
brookeg
- Mar 6, 2012 12:14 pm
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Hello and welcome to share. I am so sorry for the loss of your twin boys Cade and Caden. I wish no one ever had to find this site to tell us of their loss. I lost my boy Baron at 30 wks. We found out at 28 wks he could never survive outside the womb cause his lungs stopped growing and at 30 wks everything started to go wrong and I was induced... He lived only 30 mins, but I remember having those same thoughts. This is the best and worst day of my life. I felt like maybe he would wake up and I was in a bad dream but the dream kept going. It has been over two years for me and the pain has gotten easier. He will always be my son and I have learned to grieve in a different way... Which blogging has really helped me with.
Once again I am so sorry for your loss of your sweet little boys.
Brooke
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NathansMom13
- Mar 6, 2012 5:53 pm
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Come to ShareUnion 2012: It's the BEST weekend ever!!! |
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Hi and welcome to Share. I am so very sorry for the loss of Cade and Caden. I hope you are able to find some comfort and support from all of us during this very difficult time.
Laura
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Cade&Caden
- Mar 6, 2012 11:27 pm
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I want to say thank you to everyone who took the time out to share their story with me it's nice to know you not going through this alone
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mrsmaxson
- Mar 7, 2012 1:23 am
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I am so very sorry for the loss of your sons. I am so sorry that you are living this nightmare with us. I lost my twin sons (fraternal) when I went into preterm labor around 21 weeks. My doctors never knew why.
It's hard to be a mother to children who no one else got to know. Please visit here when you need a shoulder to cry on or someone to vent to. We all know how impossible this journey feels. You will get through it ... minute by minute some days ... but in time, the road gets a little easier to walk.
Cade and Caden are beautiful. Thank you for sharing your precious boys with us.
Wishing you hope and healing,
Shannon
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TrinitysMommy
- Mar 8, 2012 2:25 pm
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Jadon my 34 weeker, My Angel Trinity 25weeks, miscarriage 6 weeks 12/27/11, Jaxson 32 weeker |
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Welcome to Share! I am soo sorry to hear about the loss of you sweet twin boys. I really hope you find as much love, comfort and support as I have found over the last 5 years on this site. Know you are not alone and we are all here for you!
Samantha
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carolyn72
- Mar 8, 2012 7:21 pm
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Your boys are gorgeous! Keep that picture in a very safe place with lots of copies made and given to someone else as well outside your home.I am so sad for you. I lost my son brian a twin born at 28weeks after 24days of life. You will carry on, just with a piece of your heart gone to rest with your twins... Courage!
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